My wifes inability, unwillingness to recognize my boundries. My computer room is supposed to me "MY SPACE", yet most of the stuff in here is hers. She comes in and starts going through stuff to find something and all the rattling and noise drives me crazy. I am noise senstitive and rattling plastic and paper sets me off something fierce.
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What Made You Angry Today?
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KP the nut
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Last night I was beyond angry I was furious and those who know me will know I'm usually laid back.
My phone rang, I answered it. A man asked to speak to Jane Gorman, I explained that there was no-one of that name. He said I was a liar and that he had spoken to Jane on that number in the past. Woah, red flag to a bull - I gave my name, phone number and told him I'd had that number for 18 years. He said he was from the Money Shop and he would continue phoning. I asked for his name and contact number and he hung up on me.
I was shaking and triggered. I phoned BT nuisance call line and then sent the Money Shop a kick ass email. H was angry because it had upset me and he added his bit to my email as well.
The funny thing is, I'm having problems sending emails so this email was sent about 6 times - let's see how they feel about being pestered.
My phone rang, I answered it. A man asked to speak to Jane Gorman, I explained that there was no-one of that name. He said I was a liar and that he had spoken to Jane on that number in the past. Woah, red flag to a bull - I gave my name, phone number and told him I'd had that number for 18 years. He said he was from the Money Shop and he would continue phoning. I asked for his name and contact number and he hung up on me.
I was shaking and triggered. I phoned BT nuisance call line and then sent the Money Shop a kick ass email. H was angry because it had upset me and he added his bit to my email as well.
The funny thing is, I'm having problems sending emails so this email was sent about 6 times - let's see how they feel about being pestered.
timetorecover
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I am angry that I can not take my kids to school without crying in the playground if anyone so much as looks at me, let alone ask me if I am ok.
I am angry also that my husband does not realise how bad I am getting.
I am angry also that my husband does not realise how bad I am getting.
intothelight
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My daughter's passive-aggressive behavior!!! But she got the "In Your Face Steroid Debbie". Too bad it came to that, but enough is enough!! Hope she got the message or she is going to find herself out this weekend and not allowed to return until she signs a contract of the Rules of Living In My House.
I will need to calm down before I do the contract thing, I know that. Right now I am just really hurt and angry.
I will need to calm down before I do the contract thing, I know that. Right now I am just really hurt and angry.
amethist
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What made me angry yesterday afternoon and into this morning was my thoughtless, selfish husband.
He fixed the the bits on the bike he had to fix, then thought it was a good idea to go to the pub while I was out.
OK so he only had 2 but the point is it effects him like he has had 10.
He still thinks it is not a big deal and he did nothing wrong. OK so here is the list of reasons why it upset and annoyed me.
He told me to ring him if ever I came home by train with heavy shopping, and he would pick me up. So I did, but knew he could not drive. Was well naffed off when I got home having to carry the shopping.
Me running round like a numpty to find what he wanted while I was in town, before and after my first day at the carers office.
Him ruining my fist day at the office, by having to come home to that, again.
Him not being functional for the rest of the day because of it. Yea it effects him that much.
He still has not excepted his life has changed and he cannot do a lot of what he used to do.
He told me the money he had, he was going to use to take me out for a meal. Well thats blown it then.
He is not ready to sit and have a couple of drinks listening to them all moaning around him, co they do. It could send him off the tracks more then he could imagine, not matter how much I have tried to explain to him.
He is in selfish mode right now. not doing anything for me or us, it is all him, him, him.
I wont go on any more, but I am angry, and he knows it.
He fixed the the bits on the bike he had to fix, then thought it was a good idea to go to the pub while I was out.
OK so he only had 2 but the point is it effects him like he has had 10.
He still thinks it is not a big deal and he did nothing wrong. OK so here is the list of reasons why it upset and annoyed me.
He told me to ring him if ever I came home by train with heavy shopping, and he would pick me up. So I did, but knew he could not drive. Was well naffed off when I got home having to carry the shopping.
Me running round like a numpty to find what he wanted while I was in town, before and after my first day at the carers office.
Him ruining my fist day at the office, by having to come home to that, again.
Him not being functional for the rest of the day because of it. Yea it effects him that much.
He still has not excepted his life has changed and he cannot do a lot of what he used to do.
He told me the money he had, he was going to use to take me out for a meal. Well thats blown it then.
He is not ready to sit and have a couple of drinks listening to them all moaning around him, co they do. It could send him off the tracks more then he could imagine, not matter how much I have tried to explain to him.
He is in selfish mode right now. not doing anything for me or us, it is all him, him, him.
I wont go on any more, but I am angry, and he knows it.
KP the nut
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(((Amethist)))
intothelight
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(((Amethist))))
SeekingSerenity
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(((((Amethist))))))
AngelaMarie
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Finding out the once again H has been deceiving me. I hate lies and deception and it happens all the time. Why does it seem that bad behaviour and lies come easily to some people?! I had a bio-family like that and all the men I have ever been involved with are the same (of course...that wonderful pattern of destruction). I will never understand why people think it's okay to lie and hide things. Thank goodness I have never became what I have been around. I just wish sometimes it didn't disappoint me so much.
AngelaMarie
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The neighbor has been turning on the music about twice a week. About 4 hours in total. That I have learned to deal with. That didn't get a reaction...so now...she has locked her dog into the closest room next to mine and left it barking for 5 hours non-stop. Now another thing I have to overcome. Of course if it stays this way I can turn her in for the noise but then she's gotten a reaction. How the heck do you handle a person that NEVER leaves you alone?!
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