My abuser not leaving me alone after 12 f*cking years. Seriously, doesn't he have something better to do? Why mess with someone you haven't seen in 12 years? Apparently I am that damn special, yay me. Dude, I get you have my s.s.n. get over yourself because it is nothing but scare tactics.
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What Made You Angry Today?
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jaccat
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People who set their car alarms when they've left their dog in the car!:mad: Because the dog's going to understand it shouldn't move, right?
Heather
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Bumped in to an old guy I know this morning who said, his mother's dead 'so that's good, less expensive', and his wife isn't his mother so getting her nothing, re: mothers day. I said 'she is the mother of your (4) children'.
Then 2 women (not the word I'd use) at church not taking no for an answer- one doesn't know I knew she planned it 2 weeks ago, thought she had an easy one to pressure I guess- one sent the other when she got nowhere and talked like it was my idea, wtf? .. they think I'm stupid but today they can think I'm angry and stupid. I stopped short of telling them both to F@ck themself, but would have been worth seeing the look on their phony faces. All I could do to not walk out. What a crock of sh*t.
Then 2 women (not the word I'd use) at church not taking no for an answer- one doesn't know I knew she planned it 2 weeks ago, thought she had an easy one to pressure I guess- one sent the other when she got nowhere and talked like it was my idea, wtf? .. they think I'm stupid but today they can think I'm angry and stupid. I stopped short of telling them both to F@ck themself, but would have been worth seeing the look on their phony faces. All I could do to not walk out. What a crock of sh*t.
Tornadic Thoughts
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On this day of highly charged celebratory expectations for all things motherhood related, it angers me that very little, if any thought is ever given to the non-human mothers who continually and forcibly lose and suffer so much, never having a chance to be a mother to their babies since the mom and babies alike are made to provide most of the ingredients on many menus.
Yes @Tornadic Thoughts , food for thought (no pun intended). :(
TLDR: I suppose what made me angry came from being triggered. For one, x2 or x3 recent past polite 'no''s from me, and not only still asking but I am being 'volunteered' and, when saying yet another no to that again, having another person then come over to ask me if 'they' have all the people they need- when she knows I have nothing to do with it, don't want anything to do with it, and have repeatedly said so. But 2 weeks ago, I caught the person motioning 'we'll get her' , when no one asked me if 'I' would, and- sure enough- I found out I was 'volunteered' that day too.
The upshot is, trigger = connotation now that there 'no' is not respected, I have no voice, invisibilty in environment is gone, as well as any sense of safety.
Which makes me sad, not angry. And I know I'm responsible for my own triggers, but if I can't control what other people do (of course) and they don't respect 'no' (which is hard enough to say) and they aren't above board, having 'decided' without my knowledge or agreement, that's not the place for me. I, too, shouldn't have to feel like sh*t because of others, I can accomplish that on my own thanks.
TLDR: I suppose what made me angry came from being triggered. For one, x2 or x3 recent past polite 'no''s from me, and not only still asking but I am being 'volunteered' and, when saying yet another no to that again, having another person then come over to ask me if 'they' have all the people they need- when she knows I have nothing to do with it, don't want anything to do with it, and have repeatedly said so. But 2 weeks ago, I caught the person motioning 'we'll get her' , when no one asked me if 'I' would, and- sure enough- I found out I was 'volunteered' that day too.
The upshot is, trigger = connotation now that there 'no' is not respected, I have no voice, invisibilty in environment is gone, as well as any sense of safety.
Which makes me sad, not angry. And I know I'm responsible for my own triggers, but if I can't control what other people do (of course) and they don't respect 'no' (which is hard enough to say) and they aren't above board, having 'decided' without my knowledge or agreement, that's not the place for me. I, too, shouldn't have to feel like sh*t because of others, I can accomplish that on my own thanks.
Arrogant people. I suspect that arrogance is natural behaviour of most people. It is so common, it confuse me and sometimes I am not sure if I've been triggered and I exaggerate or people are arrogant too often. After such an experience I feel violent tendencies. I really do, very violent. I have always managed this before and I can handle this now but you know....I am afraid what the future holds.
What do you people do in those kind of situations or how you prevent them ??
What do you people do in those kind of situations or how you prevent them ??
Lola Nocheprieta
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Hahaha!
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LMFAO... One of the few upsides to being American is that the bar has been set soooooooo low by American tourists worldwide that any kind of Not-Arrogant-Asshole-Behavior practically gets you adopted wherever one travels in the EU. Of course, in the UK, I'm Canadian (dammit, and sticking my my story, come hell or high water ;)). Seriously unhappy with us, the cousins. Shoulders just relax across the room when you correct them. Course, my sister-in-law went the other route, she IS Canadian married to an American, both living in the UK... But she likes how people explain incrediably basic things to her when they think she's American. Like how lighter fluid (for zippo cigarette lighters, tiny little bottle) ISNT petrol, and SHOULD NOT be put in her car. :hilarious:
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Lola Nocheprieta
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Consultants for the State Bar who deny students with disabilities their accommodation. I want to rip their heads off if they make one more unduly burdensome and intrusive documentation request, contrary to Congress's intent! :mad::mad::mad::poop::poop::poop:
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