What Made You Angry Today?

[EloiseLandau]

Went out to dinner with some friends to celebrate one person's birthday. His wife was supposed to treat. His wife forgot to get money. Again. So I bailed her out. Again. Now, she will pay it back to me, but I am livid.

Oh, and the whole "oopsie I got sauce in my cleavage" was uncalled for. She is more than aware I am on edge about her flirtations lately and she simply "forgot."

 

[The Albatross]

No real time with my husband all last week then his only day off, he got up and went hunting. I was needing his attention, but didn't ask for it... just hinted. He's spending all day in the woods and I told him I wasn't very happy about his decision at 4 am this morning. (I had a panic attack last night unrelated) He went anyway. :(

 

[Butter-Bee]

littlebird i know what you mean!! I know someone like that and she is oblivious to it. Ive gone weeks not talking to her before (not ignoring her just not contacting her) to give myself time to cool down and then as soon as i see her and she puts the world and my life to right i get worked up straight away again. Worst thing is shes a relative so theres no getting rid of her even if i wanted to tell her to shhh!! hahaa
she knows best and ive learnt to just bite my tongue and let her get on with it.

 

[littlebird]

Hi Butter-Bee.

I can't bite my tongue any longer so i'm going to have to confront her. As for it being a member of your family, I confronted mine and then walked away 15 months ago and it was the best move I ever made. I can't bear toxic people around me anymore, it makes me ill, so anyone who wants to be in my life either has to shape up or ship out.

I hope your tongue doesn't get sore from all that biting ;-)

Today, I got angry with my ex who also has PTSD. (From combat) We have formed a bond over the years and I got angry with him because I feel as though he doesnt give me what I need, which is consideration and affection, but then, when he does give me affection and consideration I automatically assume the worst and I freak out anyway :-( PTSD and relationships eh? It's a good job i've got a sense of humour.

Sharon.

 

[a3a2]

What made me angry today? My parent's voices in my head accusing me.

 

[Srain]

I'm angry at myself for allowing my intimacy issues get in the way of my anniversary or maybe it was the pain I'm experiencing or fear of pain...whatever it was I feel like less of a woman these days and it's getting seriously getting old!

 

[soulofLC]

Oh Srain, I can sure relate to that sentiment! Less of a woman, yeah. Read some romantic poetry this morning and made me wistful for those yummy feelings. (sigh)

 

[Srain]

Can't get in to see my gastro doc until May??? I get that they will obviously try to get me in sooner seeing as he is doing another test tomorrow but I'm frustrated and feeling myself beginning to pull up inside myself wanting to scream........grr.

 

[AngelaMarie]

The neighbor that abandoned her cat to die while she was on vacation is back. The first thing she did was turn her music up full blast! The peace is over! I have to breath and keep my ear phones in. The sick thing is she is playing music I used to listen to. Is she desperate or what?!

 

[soulofLC]

Can you complain about her disturbing the peace?

 

[KP the nut]

Receiving a letter this morning which had me all worked up and upset. When I phoned to ask why I was told it was an administrative error.

 

[Saphy]

My mother came into my room in the morning and without realizing it kept on talking all about the responsibilities she has towards my dad's office and etc. etc. and I couldn't handle extra stress or the guilt that I was holding anyone back. I've told her so many times to stop venting with me because where I am right now in my life, I really can't handle much stress.... it makes me nauseous often. I wish someone could teach me how to ignore people or to let things go in one ear and out the other. I'm too sensitive and I need to protect myself from feeling more guilty than I do because in actuality I shouldn't feel guilty at all for trying to fix myself after so long.


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