Brothers and sisters, I have to agree with Sarg. I'm on my fourth wife thanks to the beast. Three years ago, when I met my current wife, I finally talked about the shit that consumed me daily and at night. She didnt understand either but she gave me the space and understood that it was necessary to keep me from blowing up over nothing and causing trouble between us. At these times when the beast is trying to wreak havoc on us, she has to understand that you will talk to her about whats going on with you when You are ready. Pressure dont help. You're the only one that can explain it to her Brother. Peace