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What Therapy Works For Trauma Survivors?

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Bloomy

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For me personally I dont have so much belive in exposure therapy. Nor cognitive eitheranymore. Ive survived far to much then what it would be good for me to remember. Besides it would take the rest of my life in therapy to go through it all. Its not just on single memory, one single rape. Its years and years of abuse and neglect and violence. I would loose my mind if I were to open Pandoras box on this. It rings a bell to me when he says its having your body to reset. I belive some of the exercise Ive done recent years and the knowledge of my cortisol overflow has enabled me to get new connection and calm more down. I wish I lived in US so I could have tried this group therapy he talks about cause that also sounds very interesting and reasonable to me.

So Ive foud this article by Bessel van there Kolk: http://www.nytimes.com/2014/05/25/magazine/a-revolutionary-approach-to-treating-ptsd.html?_r=0

He has spent four decades studying and trying to treat the effects of the worst atrocities we inflict on one another: war, rape, incest, torture and physical and mental abuse. If there’s one thing he’s certain about, it’s that standard treatments are not working. Patients are still suffering, and so are their families. We need to do better.

Two of the most widely employed techniques in treating trauma: cognitive behavioral therapy and exposure therapy. Exposure therapy involves confronting patients over and over with what most haunts them, until they become desensitized to it. Van der Kolk places the technique “among the worst possible treatments” for trauma. It works less than half the time, he says, and even then does not provide true relief; desensitization is not the same as healing. He holds a similar view of cognitive behavioral therapy, or C.B.T., which seeks to alter behavior through a kind of Socratic dialogue that helps patients recognize the maladaptive connections between their thoughts and their emotions. “Trauma has nothing whatsoever to do with cognition,” he says. “It has to do with your body being reset to interpret the world as a dangerous place.” That reset begins in the deep recesses of the brain with its most primitive structures, regions that, he says, no cognitive therapy can access. “It’s not something you can talk yourself out of.”

“The single most important issue for traumatized people is to find a sense of safety in their own bodies,” van der Kolk says. “Unfortunately, most psychiatrists pay no attention whatsoever to sensate experiences. They simply do not agree that it matters.”
 
Psycho-motor therapy as described in the article is similar to psychodrama. Psychomotor therapy is not that common in the US due to the lack of studies. However, somatic experiencing is more common, and it get at the same reality that our bodies, not just our brains, carry the trauma. EMDR does as well. If you can find either in your country, perhaps they would help more than CBT and exposure work for you.
 
I cant afford therapy at the moment anyway. But I will surely look more into this psycho motor on google. Its clear that head and body is linked. Cant have one with out the other. The traditional way of treating traumas as a pure head thing I dont belive in cause its not adressing the real issues in total.
 
I'm a huge follower and believer in van der Kolk.

Over the last year I've now seen three therapists. The first was CPT, whichinuded a run with exposure therapy. It almost killed me - literally - and I decompensated from that more than I should have, starting to self injure again and trying to kill myself.

Then was a CBT/DBT model. I just couldn't do it. If I hear someone tell me that depression is magically solved from eating right and exercising ever again, I might throw something at their head. (I'm so incredibly active. I do two hour workouts four or five times a week and yoga on the off days. But this therapy model meant my therapist just assumed I wasn't doing enough). I could go on and on about how much I hate CBT/DBT. How patronizing it is, etc. That therapist dropped me, anyways, due to me "not making enough progress" in six months.

Onto therapist number three. She uses the Internal Family Systems model, which is another method van der Kolk talks extensively about in his book. You might want to check it out. I feel like I have a deeper understanding of myself in the short time I've seen her than I gained in the entire time I was involved in the other therapy models.
 
Ive been fighting hard with therapist I have the last year due to what you write @theshadowoftheliving . We have now reached an understanding based upon my ability to stand up for myself and for I not and most of all - what I dont need. But I due see the limits of this therapy. On the good side atleast I have support and someone that cares.

Food and activity helps to relive some. Im active too. I wouldnt be here today if I didnt. But it doesnt as you say magically makes the traumas go away.

I will check it out - thanks for tips!
 
I know this may not be a realistic option for you, but what has worked for me is a combination of equine therapy and acceptance commitment therapy (ACT). I was a mess before I started working with the horses, but since I've started I have learned to become more mindful and have really taken control back of my own body.

I too have also gone through in vivo exposure therapy as well as CPT.
 
Thank you for posting the article, @Bloomy
I read this early in 2015? It makes much more sense now, having spent a bit of time here..
I have my intake on the 29th.
My body response is immediate when I begin to go backwards..
 
There's exposure therapy and then there's the exposure therapy.

I've always been steered away from exposure therapy (as repetitious re-exposure to specific memories) for the reasons above - simply too traumatising, and too many memories to work through. But I have used (and am using) exposure therapy in other forms which has been helpful.

I've also done a lot of CBT over the years. And while I'd agree that it doesn't help much with the basic trauma stuff, it has been immensely helpful to me with my daily coping, and particularly with the anxiety and depression that tend to go hand in hand with ptsd; so they have their place somewhere in the mix for a lot of ptsd sufferers.

By the by, I can't count the number of times that I've said "I don't want to remember any more"! It means that I haven't actively gone looking for new memories for years now, which I think has been helpful for me. I also think that I'll realistically never remember everything and, like you, I'm really really okay with that! But no matter how stubborn I get about it, memories do resurface from time to time of their own accord, which is crappy, but there doesn't seem to be any amount of strong will that will entirely halt that process:(
 
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