joeylittle
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I just think animals - all of them - are honest. Every moment of their lives, they are completely present to what they are experiencing. And when they are experiencing you, they are totally present to you. You can tell, when petting an animal, that they are taking in and enjoying what you are doing - and you can tell when they are tolerating it but are really focused on something else - it's not a mental thing, the muscles of their body shift and you can feel whether they are tense, annoyed, distracted, or what.
There's just no BS with animals. And dogs - unless they are completely dominant - are also happier when they are clear about who is in charge, so they will generally willingly give you a good amount of status automatically, which simply contributes to their interest in being keyed in to you. Relating to dogs that are strongly alpha is a different experience - but again, they are totally honest about it.
I know that's what it is, for me. They put me more in the moment, because they are in the moment. It's easy to get into "their" moment.
There's just no BS with animals. And dogs - unless they are completely dominant - are also happier when they are clear about who is in charge, so they will generally willingly give you a good amount of status automatically, which simply contributes to their interest in being keyed in to you. Relating to dogs that are strongly alpha is a different experience - but again, they are totally honest about it.
I know that's what it is, for me. They put me more in the moment, because they are in the moment. It's easy to get into "their" moment.