Would Anyone Be Willing To Attend An Online Funeral?

[Fadeaway]

It has been 6 months since I learned of my grandfathers passing. Nothing has changed for the better at all. I have experienced more loss though. i need to find a way to start to try and deal with it.

Anyways i am just trying to get a feel to see if anyone though this might be a good idea and would be willing to attend if I held something in chat for maybe 5-10 minutes. maybe help me get a little bit of closure

Sorry, this is a very difficult thing for me to do, I am still so hrt and angry that no one thought I was close enough to him to even bother to inform me, because I was a "former STEP grandchild" yet he was the most import person in my life. I didn't shed a tear when my mom killed her self. I was angry that i was never given a chance to know my biological granparents when they died. And of course I mourned privately when former ex- inlaws passed as i was no longer part of the family.

But this man, he was everything to me, even though he never saw that.

 

[WildMermaid]

Of course @Fadeaway! Anything that would maybe give you some closure. *warm :hug:*

 

[sun seeker]

I would be honoured to do that with you if it can be at a time I am around. When would you want to do this?

 

[Fadeaway]

Wow, thank you. I am overwhelmed. my schedule is flexible so what ever would be a good time for everyone else.

 

[sun seeker]

7:30 p.m. tomorrow, Pacific time, would work for me if it's good for you. I'm not at my best right now or I'd suggest tonight, but maybe you want to wait for a few more people anyway?

 

[littlelostchild]

I would attend, fadeaway.

 

[Sammyiam]

I will be there to if I can pm me a time please if you can and I'll try and make it just in and out a bit. But would love to help any way I can

 

[shimmerz]

Of course. As long as I am not passed out somewhere. :-)

 

[Recovery4Me]

Chat for those who can attend is a solid idea.!:hug:

Perhaps as the gang is dispersed in various time zones a little thread as well? You could write an epitaph and that would allow some closure as well with perhaps our time zone gang to add to it as they rose if they were inclined. I am sure many here would love to be there for you!!:hug:

btw....sorry for your loss, sincerely.

 

[sun seeker]

I could also do sometime before one p.m. Pacific time tomorrow. Just not the afternoon and early evening.

 

[Fadeaway]

I truly am overwhelmed. I don't want to rush this with out having what I want to say and all so I will do my best to post a time tomorrow.

 

[Anrish]

I would also like to attend. Just tell me your time - and I will check what time it is over here. :hug:

And I'm very sorry to hear about your loss.