Not to be realistic here (sorry folks), but in order to know what is good, you have to know what is bad. I really appreciate things that most people take for granted, so I don't want to change that. Now the thought of doing a reset for others to get it right sounds like a good idea, but once again, I wouldn't be who I am now if they hadn't been so rotten. (Not that I'm all that great, but I hope you get what I'm trying to share).
Going back in time, how about before the kids were kidnapped? I was actually happy from the time my daughter and son were born til then. I'd love to have seen what they looked like during all those years. Wow. They could be grandparents now. It's hard to imagine. If I hit that reset button, then perhaps that would deprive them of happiness. I'll let things stand as they are. But thanks for the thought.