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[EveHarrington]

Hi jack!
Can you clarify? Do you mean that she talks to you daily but won't see you?

 

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Hi jack!
Can you clarify? Do you mean that she talks to you daily but won't see you?

We talk on phone everyday and she always call when she has issue or bored but each time say let's hang out she says busy and doesn't make time so we talk of our issues

 

[shimmerz]

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It's just I have this best friend whom I knew for 3 Years and we came in her bad phase and helped a lot.. we ended up fighting alot but stuck my ground till all got better but once all went good she drifted away apparently had enough of me. she stopped want to hang out but on phone daily for hours.. it kills how someone u care who has ptsd forget all good stuff u did to them and once they get happy they want forget u since u were in their live when it was bad.. she claimed I'm not fun n always fight but we used to fight since she always was anxious n troubles

 

[AngelKeeperJ]

Hi, Jack...Welcome to the Forum!
Sometimes, people come into our lives for a
season...then drift away. It's sad, but true.

 

[lostforgottensoul]

it kills how someone u care who has ptsd forget all good stuff u did to them and once they get happy they want forget u since u were in their live when it was bad.. she claimed I'm not fun n always fight but we used to fight since she always was anxious n troubles

This doesn't sound like a PTSDer "getting happy" to me. I don't know why, it just doesn't. The "you are too boring" comment sticks out at me like a sore thumb. Maybe I'm in my own head too much but is she a risk taker when she is "happy"? I'm wondering if she is actually not "happy" and going in and out of risk taking behaviors as that would make me thinking someone is "too boring".

When I am "happy", I am grateful for anyone that stuck around for the bad times. I would want them to move with me and not be depressing and bring me down. But that's still not "too boring", its too depressing.

There isn't one senario that would make me think someone is "too boring" when im happy and not show my graditude for being there in the bad times.

I know people move foward and can sort of "grow out of" relationships, with or without PTSD. The "too boring" comment just made me think this wasn't that.

I could be in my own head too much though as I wouldn't just drop someone like that and advise they are "too boring". So this may just be a useless post.