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New in my life due to medical treatment

KA60

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OK. This may not be quite ok for this group. I have a related womebs group for this. I reached out to them. But I am pissed. I have had estrogen treatment for severe menopausal symptoms. It has helped a lot. But.... my breast size has increased. My ob gyn said it can happen. But husband now giving me too much attention for it. Not ok. My first deceased husband had onkine porn addiction. He was so distracted by it it contributed to his death. He could not focus on himself or his health. I was a stupid codependent trying to save him and I got catastrophically sick trying to save him. Any way I told my husband finally this am his attention for this is bugging the hell out of me. I am putting my tops that are lower cut revealing cleavage in the trash. I got domestic violence treatment due to first deceased husband so if I am getting attention for this from him I could be getting it elsewhere. For medical treatment!. He uses the word kitties
Your titties
look could this am etc. He is a good man but does not understand boundaries like I do. Frankly I feel ashamed humiliated for no good damn reason apparently. Except there is a reason- my body is my own. It belongs to me. Yes I am in tears over this. Thank you.
 
That’s pretty disrespectful.

Can you explain to hubby the impact that his comments are having on you? Sometimes that helps a person understand why when you ask them to stop doing something.
 
Thank you for the support. It is distasteful. Yes I explained it. I will over and over if I have to. My toos with lower cuts are now in the trash can.
 

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