Coffee sounds like a real character. Mares usually are! We have two. One is a lovely little fine boned thing. She is so sure footed that it feels like riding a hovercraft. Her only vice is that she like to pig root when you ask for canter. Our other mare has a name but we literally call her The Mare. When we introduced her to the herd my big flashy off track thoroughbred was cresting his neck and lifting his tail and throwing out his front hooves in a beautiful floating trot. (Basically saying "look at me - I'm so handsome - I'm the leader of the herd.) She just looked at him, flattened her ears to her head, spun around and gave him both barrels. She's leader of the herd now!