Beware....the Proverbial Bullseye!! (with Re-write)

[The Albatross]

Haven't read upthread... will do that later. But yeah I thought I had a target/bulls eye on my chest and a neon sign flashing over my head saying, "emotional cripples, alcoholics/addicts, abusers and other really screwed up people... HERE." The bitch part was, that ultimately "I" was the common denominator and had to endeavor to figure out my part and change... to change the dynamics. Now more reasonable, rational and healthier people are in my "circle"... I guess that means I am more reasonable and rational and healthier as well but it's just a guess. The dynamic though can change, did change for me.

 

[Deleted member 34535]

The Original, "Beware, The Proverbial Bullseye, " was supposedly injurious to some members here. So the author takes his time to do a proper rewrite to satisfy the members here who misunderstood the original thread. So what do we do, we merge the original with the rewrite. Perplexing to say the least. Not to me, but to many who do not understand.

 

[The Albatross]

Well this is in "Discussion"... so? This stuff though might get better/different replies if it was in a member diary... people usually who may relate to what you're sharing can give feedback. Unless you want a diversity of opinon?

 

[lostforgottensoul]

The Original, "Beware, The Proverbial Bullseye, " was supposedly injurious to some members here. So the author takes his time to do a proper rewrite to satisfy the members here who misunderstood the original thread.

But thats the issue, in my opinion. You are writing here to tell us something, how to heal, how to see things, to forgive, whom is a "taker" or "evil" etc. Not to gain advise and learn. Its like you are writing a book and each thread is a chapter. Right or wrong or indifferent, thats how I see it.

Start with a question. We all have them, right? Something that you'd like to know how to do or how to do better or what to do and post about it and watch the absoulte flood of knowledgeable replies come in. People that have been there or have already been through it and people that are there now and support you.

Just start with one question. Thats my advise.

Also, whether you decide to ever see it or not, you have very black & white thinking and its hendering you. I feel that you have some wonderful insights that tend to get buried under distorted thinking. Again, just my opinion and its not intended in a bad way but in a hoping to be helpful way.

I would start a diary if i were you. Its a great place to write about whatever you feel like and i was terrified to and very glad i eventually did! :)

 

[Deleted member 34535]

Albatross, I will take that under advisement, thank you. What I won't do is dismiss what I meant in the original thread and what reasonable people should have inferred what I was talking about. If someone really thought I meant to do harm to someone's knees in the first thread, I have nothing to say. If someone didn't know that I know when the word we is used that there will always be exceptions to this, I have nothing to say. I don't think there are but a small handful that will fit into either one of these categories.

 

[joeylittle]

So what do we do, we merge the original with the rewrite. Perplexing to say the least. Not to me, but to many who do not understand.

You are clear - you did the rewrite to say that the rewrite was a waste of time.

Yeah, they are merged...because they are a continuation. We do the same with many different kinds of threads.

I'm glad you aren't perplexed. Any of the many who are perplexed - since you seem to know who these people are - can communicate with me however they'd like.

Think it over while you are on a temporary ban. Throwing a childish fit, opening a new thread, then complaining about the thread merge - it's all a bit much.

This passive-aggressive trolling act has to stop.

 

[Deleted member 34535]

JL, have a wonderful weekend. It's almost here. We are off to a wonderful start.