Losing My Mind

[Lex113]

I have two children with my abusive bipolar husband who I suspect has narcissistic personality disorder.
I have him blocked on Facebook. I have him blocked on Facebook messenger.
I have to see him this Thursday due to the guardium ad litem saying that he has a right to visitation and its at my daughters therapist so its a 'controlled' environment. Im not excited about the situation.
I went to check my Facebook and there was a new friend request, it was from him. I had him blocked. I know. I had him blocked. I blocked him on Facebook messenger and on Facebook. I DON'T UNDERSTAND. I had him blocked.
I want to throw up.
Maybe I unblocked him. Maybe I didn't remember. I don't know. I thought I had him blocked.

 

[Thizette]

You can check who you have blocked. Is it possible he's created a new account? The problem with blocking is it blocks the account, not the person.

 

[Deleted member 541]

@Lex113 it's ok..... Just take a deep breath and breath. You can always go back into Facebook and block him again. And if that doesn't work and he keeps sending friend request, just delete them and ignore it. I know it's hard, but don't let this get to you. The more you get upset the more the symptoms flare. So just breath.

And look at it this way.... You blocked him and the asshole can't make you unblock him so you won that battle. Breath......

 

[Justmehere]

If he created a new account to harass you on FB you can report the account to FB.

If he escalates or does this again, you can tell him to no longer contact you through FB and if he does it again, contact PD for them to go after him for harassment.

So sorry you are dealing with this. :hug:

 

[aut555]

The more you think, the more power you give him over you. Don't give the power. You own your emotions, you blocked him, but abusive spouses have a hard time letting go. That means he has to invest time in a new victim because you are relinquishing that role. Yay for you.

 

[aut555]

I have two children with my abusive bipolar husband who I suspect has narcissistic personality disorder....

My bipolar soon to be ex told me he was bipolar, and he has narcissistic shades also. Does not want to go for meds. He claims he is a functional bpd. Like our 18 year marriage was functional. Ok ok ok just keep dreaming just dreaming, wait, what, what, finally why, why did l marry you?