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@Sweetpea76... Step ahead of you. Got my laptop today while he was at work. I also have the gift he got for "his love" and he isnt getting it back. When I showed him the gift he got really mad and threw the mail against the wall and said going through my sh$! again! I told him nope the blame game stops here. Im done putting up with your crap. And his explanation of writing "my love" on the gift was because he just wrote it. He thinks Im stupid. Going to see a lawyer soon. Hopefully before the week is over. I told him he has no business spending money on another woman when I cant even pay the bills on time. He spent money on a plane ticket and on a hotel too, he claims. He spent money on a gift for this skank. Yes I call her a skank because she knows he is married. Shows her morals and values are just as upstanding as his. He claims nothing will be going on when he goes to Texas. I said you really think I am stupid. I told him either this woman is out of his life tonight, or there is zero hope for me to even consider working on anything. I said it several times and he wouldnt answer. I said your proving ro me that I mean nothing to you. Our family means nothing to you. And the 18 years I have stood by your side means nothimg. Finally he said, thats a lot of money to throw away. I said so give it to somebody. I said so what are you saying. He said Im saying Im going to Texas. I said then we are done. I walked away then texted him and said dont forget, your telling our children how your choosing another woman over your family. He is such a lying piece of crap and thinks Im stupid. He makes me sick.
 
@Mytime... Thank you so much. Your words mean alot. Everyone on here is awesome and so supportive. Ptsd really wont be a part of my life anymore but I think I will stick around to see how everyone is coming a long and to chat.

@tiredtexan... Im not sure what you mean by stick with it unless you mean stick with telling him we are done. If thats what you mean then yes. I have not contacted him since he left last night and have no intention to. He is having an affair. At this point its emotional which to me is the worst. He shut me completely out a few months ago when he started his little randevous with this skank and has been behaving like we are divorced since then while saying things like I dont see a divorce happening and no I dont want you to move on with your life. I found out yesterday that he has gotten a plane ticket to go see thus skank from dec 30 to jan 7. Which means it will turn physical eventhough he says no thwts not why im going there. He is a slimy slithering lying piece of crap. So I told him last night either he ends it with this woman tonight and dont go to Texas or we are done because he cant have both. He chose texas and her. So Im done. I dont deserve this crap. Especially the way he chose to do it all.
 
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