I guess the best thing I can tell you is to not be afraid to try it. And I mean a decent trial -- months, not days or a few weeks. This med has really and truly given a lot of folks their lives back. Yes, there are side effects -- especially in the beginning, but there are side effects with everything. Work with your prescriber, as well as your therapist. It may be helpful to keep a journal or a list of any concerns you might have. NEVER stop this medication abruptly. As with 99.5% of these types of meds, you really should not drink when you are on them. Be mindful of caloric intake and keep to a reasonable exercise regime. You def should see an improvement in your sleep from this. Best of everything with this process -- and it IS a process; there is no such thing as a quick fix here. ~~ Lady Doc.