cntrymom08466
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Well, for a background, my kids father molested & raped them several years ago. I have been married to a wonderful man for 11 years. He had 2 children and I had 3. My ex had done things to 2 of my daughters, extensively to my oldest who is now 30.
Over the weekend, my stepdaughter, (who is 26) went to visit my youngest daughter's (who is 23) & her fiance, and they played cards I guess and drank extensively. (we don't allow drinking in our house really, because of my oldest daughter & her son lives with us and she is now 2 1/2 years sober) and my stepdaughter and her daughter lives with us as well. It's a full house lol.
Anyway, back to the weekend, during all the partying they were doing, my stepdaughter passed out. She also got sick either that night or the next morning anyway. Apparently her and her daughter, slept on the couch and she woke up at some point during the night and said that my daughter's fiance, his father's p**** was in her mouth. She doesn't remember a lot before that and her daughter was at the other end of the couch. I guess they had all been drinking. I don't know how much anyone else had been drinking. This same stepdaughter (who is gay she says) and has a daughter from a drunk night with her best friends' husband.
My husband (her dad) is the first one she told and he woke me up and told me last night, he couldn't sleep. Of course he still thinks of her as his baby girl. I'm not sure what to do. I'm thinking we need to let her handle this on her own. She was told by another friend she should tell us. I'm not sure why, she says she don't want to press charges on him, because of L(my daughter) it would probably destroy that relationship. My stepdaughter has previous sexual trauma from other men in her past, not family, and I just don't know what to think anymore. Brings up bad memories, but also I don't want to deal with it. Partly because of my past. Does that make me a bad parent? Sorry this is so long!
Over the weekend, my stepdaughter, (who is 26) went to visit my youngest daughter's (who is 23) & her fiance, and they played cards I guess and drank extensively. (we don't allow drinking in our house really, because of my oldest daughter & her son lives with us and she is now 2 1/2 years sober) and my stepdaughter and her daughter lives with us as well. It's a full house lol.
Anyway, back to the weekend, during all the partying they were doing, my stepdaughter passed out. She also got sick either that night or the next morning anyway. Apparently her and her daughter, slept on the couch and she woke up at some point during the night and said that my daughter's fiance, his father's p**** was in her mouth. She doesn't remember a lot before that and her daughter was at the other end of the couch. I guess they had all been drinking. I don't know how much anyone else had been drinking. This same stepdaughter (who is gay she says) and has a daughter from a drunk night with her best friends' husband.
My husband (her dad) is the first one she told and he woke me up and told me last night, he couldn't sleep. Of course he still thinks of her as his baby girl. I'm not sure what to do. I'm thinking we need to let her handle this on her own. She was told by another friend she should tell us. I'm not sure why, she says she don't want to press charges on him, because of L(my daughter) it would probably destroy that relationship. My stepdaughter has previous sexual trauma from other men in her past, not family, and I just don't know what to think anymore. Brings up bad memories, but also I don't want to deal with it. Partly because of my past. Does that make me a bad parent? Sorry this is so long!
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