Sociopath?

[KwanYingirl]

You can do this @Verydown !! I fell for it and it got very dangerous. I still look for his white truck tucked away on my way home. Cut him out now and don’t hesitate to ask for help. Here, the police, Your local domestic abuse agency. Listen to us not him. He is not Prince Charming, he is a venemous snake.

 

[Teasel]

Short in words but am rooting for you @Verydown :-)

 

[Verydown]

I had to see him today. I picked the kids up from him. He gave me chocolates and card off kids for mother’s day. I drove away and he rang and said where you going cause you don’t live that way. I said none of your business and went to put the phone down when he said ‘and you wonder why I won’t try and fix something that’s broken’

 

[Supervixn]

Let it fall away from you. F his games. Forget all that happened. You're already doing so well with how you responded! Good job! How much are you able to limit your contact with him?

 

[Verydown]

I have to see him every weekend when I drop and collect kids.

 

[saraemerald]

I had to see him today. I picked the kids up from him. He gave me chocolates and card off kids for mot...

That's crazy. He sounds like a control freak. You are not obligated to tell him where you are going. He's only calling and asking you that because he has no control now.

 

[Verydown]

I totally agree. He has found out I’m moving house and he rang and said send me a picture of your house as proof you are moving. I told him I had nothing to prove to him. He then said ‘and you wonder why I can’t come back, because you lie all the time and hide things’.

 

[saraemerald]

You sound like you got this even though it sucks. Keep posting when you need to. We'll all be here to support you

 

[Blue Survivor]

I think that he is a selfish jerk who will forever use both you and this other woman to suit his mood/"needs" until one of you cuts off contact with him. Divorce him, yesterday! And then stop all contact with him which includes sleeping with him.

I know it seems like 'she' is winning if you do that, but let's look at the prize: a lying, manipulative cheater. Let her have him, and then let her be the one he's cheating on, because it will happen.

 

[saraemerald]

I totally agree. He has found out I’m moving house and he rang and said send me a picture of your ho...

@Verydown, how is everything? Are you in a better place? Let us know whats going on. Hugs