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Opinions? Desperate for help, but I feel like my therapist is hurting me.

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Like I told my T I was sex abused Sunday and she ask me what do I know about my birth and when did I start acting out/ like pointing the finger at me and questioning me. When I first told her I was abused by my parent she called me delusional for saying it then lied about why she called me delusional, after I brought up abuse she told me she did not want to be lied too about it and then denied saying it. She made my abuser come into sessions and responded badly, manipulatively, condescendingly, passive-aggressively when i confronted her starting sessions late ending too early then called me abusive saying I was gaslighting her when I told her what she did.

IM SO DESPERATE FOR HELP BUT I FEEL LIKE MY THERAPIST IS HURTING ME.

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That’s because your therapist IS hurting you. Fire her, get a new one. Seriously.

Bad therapy is worse than no therapy // it’s faaaaaar better to have no therapy whilst you find a good one, that to continue on with this POS.

During that interim period? RAINN | The nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization has some absolutely fantastic resources for sexual assault & sexual abuse victims.

At some later date? You might also consider reporting her to her governing body. Don’t worry about that, right now, but that’s the level of how wrong this is.
 
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Like I told my T I was sex abused Sunday and she ask me what do I know about my birth and when did I start acting out/ like pointing the finger at me and questioning me. When I first told her I was abused by my parent she called me delusional for saying it then lied about why she called me delusional, after I brought up abuse she told me she did not want to be lied too about it and then denied saying it. She made my abuser come into sessions and responded badly, manipulatively, condescendingly, passive-aggressively when i confronted her starting sessions late ending too early then called me abusive saying I was gaslighting her when I told her what she did.

IM SO DESPERATE FOR HELP BUT I FEEL LIKE MY THERAPIST IS HURTING ME.

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Hi, Survivir2324. This definitely sounds like an unsafe therapist. If I were in your shoes, I would not see this therapist again.

Please don't let this bad experience prevent you from getting the help you need. There are good mental health professionals out there who are kind and supportive. You just need to keep looking until you find the right one for you. Always trust your instincts and take care of yourself.

Praying you will find healing and love.
 
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