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Anonymous85
Hello everyone!
I’ve posted this in relationships but I am not currently with the guy I’m talking about here. I’ve been seeing him on and off for about three years. We corresponded when he was away for work and several times he has disappeared etc. I have told him many times that I wanted a relationship with him and it never worked out until in January I think we were officially together for a week lol he then broke it off abruptly saying he needed to focus on his therapy. He cut off all contact but then a few weeks later came back and decided to be just friends. Then he decided that we should be friends but without benefits. He had said he loved me a few times.
This week he told me that he has never cared about me, that he never did and did say and do everything out of manipulation. I agree that it would make sense to believe him. He has not treated me well. He had not treated me like someone in love. But o know that he feels unlovable and that he has done things in his past that make him feel unlovable. I think I just maybe really want to believe that he does care for me in some way and that it was not all for nothing but maybe it is true what he says.
should I believe his words or is it ptsd talking?
I’ve posted this in relationships but I am not currently with the guy I’m talking about here. I’ve been seeing him on and off for about three years. We corresponded when he was away for work and several times he has disappeared etc. I have told him many times that I wanted a relationship with him and it never worked out until in January I think we were officially together for a week lol he then broke it off abruptly saying he needed to focus on his therapy. He cut off all contact but then a few weeks later came back and decided to be just friends. Then he decided that we should be friends but without benefits. He had said he loved me a few times.
This week he told me that he has never cared about me, that he never did and did say and do everything out of manipulation. I agree that it would make sense to believe him. He has not treated me well. He had not treated me like someone in love. But o know that he feels unlovable and that he has done things in his past that make him feel unlovable. I think I just maybe really want to believe that he does care for me in some way and that it was not all for nothing but maybe it is true what he says.
should I believe his words or is it ptsd talking?