I’ve put this here because I am not sure if I have this core belief that I am to blame.
I’ve been blamed for things my whole life. I took on all the problems at home alone with my mother who was mentally ill, when I was a youngster.
I’ve had an abusive relationship where he continues to blame everything on me. He’s the father the of my son, can’t get rid of him.
I attract men who are nasty to me verbally, and get blamed again for things going south.
When do I start to accept that it maybe is me?
But then people tell me to not blame myself?
But I’m the common denominator in all of the situations in my life.
But then am I just taking all the blame?
Am I alone because nobody wants to be around me? Or because I pull myself away from people because people for me = fear.
I’m genuinely trying to figure this out. Is the problem me? Or am I taking the blame because it’s easier to? Is there a middle ground. Help me get out of this loop! I hope someone can resonate with the way I’m feeling/thinking right now?
I’ve been blamed for things my whole life. I took on all the problems at home alone with my mother who was mentally ill, when I was a youngster.
I’ve had an abusive relationship where he continues to blame everything on me. He’s the father the of my son, can’t get rid of him.
I attract men who are nasty to me verbally, and get blamed again for things going south.
When do I start to accept that it maybe is me?
But then people tell me to not blame myself?
But I’m the common denominator in all of the situations in my life.
But then am I just taking all the blame?
Am I alone because nobody wants to be around me? Or because I pull myself away from people because people for me = fear.
I’m genuinely trying to figure this out. Is the problem me? Or am I taking the blame because it’s easier to? Is there a middle ground. Help me get out of this loop! I hope someone can resonate with the way I’m feeling/thinking right now?