Trying to find… someone I guess.

[DanM96$$]

Hmmm. Sometimes I really do wonder if I’m too much. I mean… my friends never really… check up on me at all. Most of them go about their own lives and… *sigh* I just feel stuck on the wayside. I know what I’m worth. That’s not the question “if I’m worth the time to check up on.” I know for a fact that I am. It’s just tough that not a lot of people amongst my friends see it.

I usually spend time trying to connect with my friends over text. Asking them how they are, asking about their lives and how they go about it. I literally get no responses from them. Even if I ask about something they take pride in. I’m not saying that I don’t matter. But to them it appears as if I do not.

I need something tangible, something that says “I see that.” Sometimes in a romantic sense (admittedly) sometimes in a purely platonic sense. But as this far I get nothing. It’s just really tough.

 

[captain jigglypuff]

I’m in a similar boat. I have very few friends and I can’t find anyone that is interested in being in a relationship with me.

 

[DanM96$$]

I’m in a similar boat. I have very few friends and I can’t find anyone that is interested in being in a relationship with me.

Really? I mean… I don’t know you at all, but if you’re posting here, there IS a lot of strength to you. Like from what I’ve learned in my journey with PTSD is that people with mental illness are a lot stronger than most people realize.

 

[captain jigglypuff]

My problem is that everyone I talk to online to try to form a romantic relationship will suddenly stop talking to me after and average of two weeks. I posted a thread in the relationship section that explains more about my problems with form relationships of any kind.

 

[DanM96$$]

My problem is that everyone I talk to online to try to form a romantic relationship will suddenly stop talking to me after and average of two weeks. I posted a thread in the relationship section that explains more about my problems with form relationships of any kind.

Hmm. I see. I can’t even get anyone to talk to me at all let alone an average of two weeks.

And… I mean we don’t have to go into detail about it, but… may you give the rundown as to why that might be that whenever you try it just fizzles out? I’m here to listen.

 

[captain jigglypuff]

Hmm. I see. I can’t even get anyone to talk to me at all let alone an average of two weeks.

And… I mean we don’t have to go into detail about it, but… may you give the rundown as to why that might be that whenever you try it just fizzles out? I’m here to listen.

That’s just it. I have no idea what happened. They just stop talking to me and won’t respond to my messages asking what I did wrong.

 

[DanM96$$]

That’s just it. I have no idea what happened. They just stop talking to me and won’t respond to my messages asking what I did wrong

Well… if it makes any difference, I want to care for you. I mean… I’m sorry if it comes across as weird since I don’t know you at all. But… in my life, I have learned to care to do what is right. To whoever it might be.

Where are my manners? My name is Daniel. What is your name?

 

[captain jigglypuff]

Well… if it makes any difference, I want to care for you. I mean… I’m sorry if it comes across as weird since I don’t know you at all. But… in my life, I have learned to care to do what is right. To whoever it might be.

Where are my manners? My name is Daniel. What is your name?

I’d rather not use my real name here.

 

[DanM96$$]

I’d rather not use my real name here.

Oh. Right. My bad.

 

[DanM96$$]

I’d rather not use my real name here.

That’s ok. Tell me about yourself. I’m sure you’re very interesting.

 

[captain jigglypuff]

Just look for my post in the Introduction page. I tell everyone all about myself there

 

[DanM96$$]

Just look for my post in the Introduction page. I tell everyone all about myself there

Ok. I just read through your post introducing yourself. You can read mine too as well as my other posts. It’s pretty short.

And for what it is worth, I’m not saying it fixes anything because what happened in your life was very… traumatizing. But for what it’s worth, I’m very sorry. I… really couldn’t imagine being put through the events in your life. I don’t want to intrude on anything. And I really want to be compassionate and gentle as possible.

Is there anything I can do for you?