What Are You Avoiding Doing, That You Really Must Do In Order To Gain, Regain Or Maintain Wellness?

[femaleveteran]

that picture of your dog is awesome scott. LOL.....If only I could come back as a dog in a future lifetime.....of course i probably would come back as one of those neurotic little yappity yap dogs like a toy poodle or something like that.....but if I could be a hound dog or a big old St. Bernard or somthing that would be cool....Big enough so people would not mess with me when I am sleeping or eating but yet nice enough so that I could get away with it all the time.

 

[Tinyflame]

Latin-OMG with ptsd I'm still mastering English, lol

 

[ms spock]

Learning to let go.

 

[Tinyflame]

Learning to let go.

..maybe with 'expectant hope' (?), Ms Spock?

((((Hugs))))-

 

[ms spock]

Indeed expectant hope Junebug

Ty for the hugs!

 

[ms spock]

I avoid making myself a home.

 

[Tinyflame]

I avoid making myself a home.

"..til now.." (-?)
:);)
((((Ms Spock)))

 

[ms spock]

I avoid making myself a home until today where I will take one small step.

Thanks Junebug for being on the ball.

 

[Tinyflame]

You deserve the 'Thanks', Ms Spock. 'You' did it. :)
xoxox

 

[ms spock]

You are so generous Junebug and with a lot of insight as well.

ms spock

 

[Tinyflame]

Oh dear Ms Spock- it is just the truth. You are very wise, to think of and recognize these things.

And just thought: I should thank you, too, because never thought of 'home' as an aspect of 'wellness', and letting go I think is critical- thank you for the reminder.

Also, too, I hate to say it this way but I actually feel 'better', hearing so many people say that they feel like they don't belong (or 'shouldn't', for others' sakes, etc )-pretty much 'everywhere'- (ie no 'home'), not because I feel better about it (it makes me feel worse, for them), but maybe that feeling or perception is really colored by/ is caused by, ptsd?
Maybe Ms Spock you've really 'hit on' something?
-xox

 

[Kintsugi]

I'm avoiding... uh... well, not taking drugs? I'm avoiding seeing drugs in general as an issue for me.

And I'm avoiding talking to my parents Real Time and telling them that I am a human being who has rights.

This is all very confrontational and scary. O.O

Good thread!