I Need Everyone's Positive Energy Today - Returning To Scene Of Accident

[Hashi]

Sending you lots of positive thoughts and energy now that you have done this. It must have taken a lot of courage, I admire you for doing it. Be kind to yourself.

Hashi

 

[LoyalOne]

Agree with Cath, wc - that was super brave. (((wc)))

 

[wcdean]

I don't know any better word to express sincere, but my sincere thanks to everyone (times infinity I guess). Took a few days off to rest. Actually back at work as of yesterday and they seem to be easing me in pretty well. I know that I'll never forget, but think I'm starting to allow myself to at least move forward. I definitely feel better than I did a few months ago, so I do see improvement. I am hoping that the people I work with will also comment that I seem different as the days continue. I'm still prepared for the triggers, as I know that there will always be little remnants here and there that may affect me more than I would like, but I'll deal with those as they come.

My wife Mary and I thank you all and credit each and every one of you as being absolutely instrumental in my journey back to health. I could not do any of this without both her and all of you. I have found strength in your support, guidance in your words, and most importantly, the feeling that people not only understand but also genuinely care about one another.

 

[KP the nut]

I have found strength in your support, guidance in your words, and most importantly, the feeling that people not only understand but also genuinely care about one another.

(((((wcdean & Mary))))). I could have written the above. Those are the reasons I love this forum. You have added your support and shared your journey with us. Everyone who posts and supports us is amazing. Sharing experiences is I think what brings us closer together.

I feel I am a better person for knowing everyone here.

Linking arms so that we can move forward together.
KP

 

[Tinyflame]

Dear wcdean,
I also think what you did was very brave.

Just to say, were it 'me' and not that man I would (totally) forgive you. Nothing accidental is ever intentioned, on top of it all. That's why it's an 'accident'.

If I were family of the person at first I would be enraged at the 'injustice of it all- the injustice of life'- not 'you'- but (and) I would never ever ever want someone to harbour guilt or ruin their own life- that would be the one (and the only) preventable tragedy.

Were it 'me', I would want to 'come back' and assure you myself 'all was well', and please be happy and at peace. :)

(((((((wcdean and Mary))))))

 

[CraftyCath]

((((wcdean & Mary))))

You deserve your success WCD. It is great to know that people here can help us through difficulties and they so often do! Well done and love to you and Mary. x

 

[LoyalOne]

wcdean.... ♥♥♥ Good luck to you and your wife.

 

[AngelKeeperJ]

:cry: Happy tears for you and your wife! You did a HUGE thing going to the site...I truly believe your healing is deeper than you ever imagined. You will see how it positively affects your future.