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What Types Of Grounding Techniques Do You Do?

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My most basic grounding, connecting to a neutral source of energy, is imagining the earth's energy coming up through the soles of my feet.
My other activities, of finding safe connections, are to:
  • Lie face down on the earth-and imagine lying on my grandmother's chest.
  • Spend time with my uncle.
  • Mindfulness meditation.
  • Stroking the energy down through my arms and legs, to help me associate to my body.
  • Walks in nature.
  • Connecting to PTSD Forum website.
  • Practicng my self-defender moves.
 
Smelling peppermint oil.

Massaging my hands with lotion.

If I'm outside, noticing how things around me are structured or patterned, eg identifying the various patterns of the bricks in the garden walls I walk past.

Drawing geometric patterns and celtic style designs.

Dancing.

Choreographing dances in my head.

Listening to particular pieces of music and focussing on every note.

Playing simple computer games - tetris, pairs, card games.

Wearing a bracelet that was given to me by a friend.

Doing the yoga pose The Warrior and trying not to fall over.

Learning lines of a poem off by heart and reciting them back to myself. I'm very good at the first verse of Kubla Khan.
 
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So far, here is what I've got. I'm the same. Body stuff on myself triggers me, but other people's body stuff helped me tonight. Like, mentioning their clothes, the colors and how you like the clothes.

Drinking something cold. Eating a snack and paying attention how it tastes, saying out loud how good it tastes.

Me, I have to keep my eyes open and say things out loud I've noticed.

Also, playing bingo on my iPad. I never noticed it before until I read someone else here plays tetris, but it does ground me now that I think of it and it's probably why I love playing it so much.

A hot bath. Cozy blankets. Light hearted movies. And definitely coming on this forum and sharing how I'm feeling. The girls around here really know how to give me a good kick in my behind ;)

Thanks for starting this thread. Now, I have even more to add to my list.
 
Yes, thanks for starting this thread @Ms Spock. I haven't been out of my house very much since developing PTSD and a lot of my grounding techniques won't work outside. I've picked up some really good ideas here which I will start practicing.

I also spend hours playing Tetris and find that I can think about what happened to me much more calmly while I play. I later found out that the game is being used therapeutically and there are research papers on the links between Tetris and EMDR. Fascinating!
 
It depends for me on the situation I'm needing to ground myself in. Some of the things I do (or try to do) have already been mentioned. I say try, because I'm still quite rubbish at catching myself early on, remembering in the moment that I have these tools to call on!

Two things that haven't been mentioned, but which work or me, particularly on intrusive thoughts/memories and if I'm getting visual flashback stuff going on...

The first, and the one I find most effective, is to draw a square in my head over whatever else I am seeing there. Start in one corner, draw the top line, when you get to the first corner count to 4 then draw a line down for the first side, again count to 4 when you reach the corner, repeat for the bottom, and going up the last side. Then keep going round, counting to four at each corner, until you are more settled. Once I'm a bit more settled I might then be able to do something else like spotting things around the room etc, but I find that I really struggle with external type grounding tools until I've actually dealt with some internal stuff - not sure how much sense that makes?? I need to meet things like for like, so if it's images in my head that are disturbing me, then I need to tackle them with something inside my head too. If it was some external trigger perhaps, like an object I see that might set me off, then I am more likely to protect myself for looking for other things in my environment to distract me.

The second one that I use quite a lot, again and internal in my head grounding, is to freeze the unwanted image in my head as if on a screen and then shrink it, replace the image with one that I want, and enlarge the screen again. (I have a couple of fairly simple images I use for this. These are from photos that I have taken and processed/edited myself, which helps to lock them in my head and also gives a different association for me because I am able to draw on the feelings from the time that I took them). I have simple one or two word phrases associated with the image as well that I can repeat in my head to help with this one. I'm supposed to touch my wrist or my thumb when I'm bringing up the new image as well and in theory that creates an association you can use to bring up the image at a later point by touching the same spot again - I'm rubbish at remembering that bit though!

Photography itself helps ground me quite a lot actually, both the taking and editing of photos. Taking them helps keeps me connected to the present moment. Editing works as a distraction.
 
Interesting thanks @digger.

Does anyone have any ideas for if you are frozen (unable to move anything) and re living and everything is black? It's only happened to me a few times but I really struggled to come out.
 
@Abstract I've experienced that before, a hand full of times and just last year. I didn't realize it before, but I think my trying to think of all of the words that end in -ology or selecting a word and running through the alphabet to find what rhymes with them all the way until the end, and playing word games in my head is something that I chanced upon that helped bring me out of those.

When I have those frozen and black moments, my head is stuck looping on something usually.

One time, I even saw a word from my trauma in my head and it kept appearing over and over again. It's like my brain went through a tunnel and zoomed in on the word like a photo only it got stuck on zoom. Right before I came out, I could taste the word. I literally felt the word come out and shatter through my teeth and I cried. That's never happened to me before and it was scary, but my T tells me she believes things like that are real.
 
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