I am a boyfriend of a young lady (26) who was abused by her significantly older brother-in-law from the age of 13 physically (although grooming had been taking place before this) to 18 years old.
The abuse was as frequent as at least once a week and involved being taken to other pedophiles at the ages of 13 and 14. The early rape was as I understood a rape situation to be. She remembers crying throughout the experiences and not understanding what was happening. Often it was filmed and with multiple men.
She then developed Stockholm Syndrome (falling 'in love' with your abuser) as a response to the events. This lead to her now still only 14 doing all she could to 'please' him. She would regularly attend swingers parties. Often with men/couples initially unaware of her age (14). She was brought a laptop so she could (with the brother-in-laws guidance) set up sex parties with other men/couples via email chats and to watch porn to find exciting positions etc. Her whole life was simply abuse day in day out at the hands of BIL. When under his control in this time she had 3 abortions with one occasion her not knowing who the father could be due to the volume of rape that month. This has massively affected her.
Luckily (her words) she got Leukaemia which stopped the pedophiles and parties as she was constantly in hospital and incredibly ill for 12-15 months. While ill and isolated in hospital he continued his grooming and increased his control. Then they had 'an affair' (for the want of a better description) for a number of years.
This went onto the age of 18 when she started to see the real world she had previously not be exposed to. She began to realise the life she was living was not normal as her social interaction grew.
She now suffers PTSD in the form of night terrors/flashbacks. The flashback bring about physical pain in her vagina and other body parts as she relives the attacks.
I have posted more information on the issue in 'Introduce Yourself'. I'm am of course looking for advice in many areas.
The abuse was as frequent as at least once a week and involved being taken to other pedophiles at the ages of 13 and 14. The early rape was as I understood a rape situation to be. She remembers crying throughout the experiences and not understanding what was happening. Often it was filmed and with multiple men.
She then developed Stockholm Syndrome (falling 'in love' with your abuser) as a response to the events. This lead to her now still only 14 doing all she could to 'please' him. She would regularly attend swingers parties. Often with men/couples initially unaware of her age (14). She was brought a laptop so she could (with the brother-in-laws guidance) set up sex parties with other men/couples via email chats and to watch porn to find exciting positions etc. Her whole life was simply abuse day in day out at the hands of BIL. When under his control in this time she had 3 abortions with one occasion her not knowing who the father could be due to the volume of rape that month. This has massively affected her.
Luckily (her words) she got Leukaemia which stopped the pedophiles and parties as she was constantly in hospital and incredibly ill for 12-15 months. While ill and isolated in hospital he continued his grooming and increased his control. Then they had 'an affair' (for the want of a better description) for a number of years.
This went onto the age of 18 when she started to see the real world she had previously not be exposed to. She began to realise the life she was living was not normal as her social interaction grew.
She now suffers PTSD in the form of night terrors/flashbacks. The flashback bring about physical pain in her vagina and other body parts as she relives the attacks.
I have posted more information on the issue in 'Introduce Yourself'. I'm am of course looking for advice in many areas.
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