Bad date and ghosting

[Candleflames]

I went on a bad date recently. First the guy was kind of an ass and made fun of my driving before drinking, my ability to hold my alcohol later, then threw up for half an hour. I could chalk that up to just meh and move on. However when he took his shirt off and I got a closer look at his tattoos I kinda froze and then freaked out all the way home. Guy had third reich eagles and swastikas on him. These are huge triggers for me. The only thing I can think of to do is to ghost him. Which I've been doing but he's not getting it and keeps messaging me.

Words of wisdom anyone?

 

[WishfulThinking123]

Hmm...I would just block him if he keeps messaging you. It is nice if you can tell him something such as ehh its just not working for me, something simple. However, sometimes blocking is the only thing that will do the trick and that's fine too. I have had to block a couple of guys recently-sometimes we just need to do what is best for us you know?

 

[anonymous]

Or just tell him you don't date Möchtegern Scheissestaffel. That he can take his Hakenkreuz flag and shove it up his
Weißer Müll Arschloch.

In other words...
You don't date wannabe shitnazi's. That he take his swastika and shove it up his white trash asshole.

Why anyone wants to emulate that bunch of savages is beyond me.

 

[Deleted member 42121]

WTF?!? Wow!!! Block him!!!

You gotta be careful with who you go out with these days!

When I was a trashy cocktail waitress on an oil rig (fictitious location as actual location is concealed to protect my identity) I had to mace a 'shitnazi' during a huge fight that erupted into the street. Two weeks later this chick came in to my work and THANKED ME saying her best friend was raped by him but was too terrified to report it. She said she was happy to hear he got maced.

Also, another incident ten years later with one of these guys I try and forget... long story short I sassed one of these guys and I'll let you guess what happened after that:(

Anywhoo... I totally get it on the trigger by the tattoos... also flashing them is a "threat"... not sure if youve ever seen a gang fight erupt but, it usually involves guys flashing their tats, lifting up shirts etc. First time I saw it I was like WTF are they doing??!? So, I do think it's interesting that on a first date he flashed you his "afiliation" as soon as possible.

Me + tats = nope!

No pentagrams, no sheissemachen, no bloods, no cryps... no nuthin! Give me the dweeb with the glasses and the fast computer thank you very much!

Naziwannabee... stay far, far away!

 

[Stitchin]

Omg stay away from this guy!! All your instincts are working

 

[Fadeaway]

Ghost away, ghost away. I can't believe people like that still exist.