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Believing i can talk to animals

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Let me say honestly and truly the cats and dogs in my life keep me on this planet.

I'm now a scientist. Animal behaviour and welfare. Specialist in cats and dogs (and I compete with my own dogs in sports plus they star in short films and adverts) but I get paid much more money to work with livestock. I do talk to animals and they talk back, but in their language. I freaking love what I do. Even when I feel like stepping off the edge of the earth. Don't stop talking to them is my advice ;) They tell you truths about yourself that you don't really want to hear.
 
I was placed into 20 or so foster homes before the age of 2 years old. I have read the documentation of how that was for me. Hell. And consistently in the reports from children's aid it stated over and over again that I instantly bonded with any animal that was in a 'new home' when I was taken there.

I did actually have to switch that when I realized that I had learned to attach to animals because they were literally the only safe and consistent element in my tiny life. Animals, for the neglected and the abused, routinely can be the only things that provide compassion, a sense of security and kindness, nurturing.

So yes, it would make sense that I would project onto them what I needed in the moment. That would include my thinking I knew what they needed and conversely, my thinking they knew what I needed. No idea if you can relate at all but animals, for most of my life provided more of a sense of attachment to me than any human ever could.

It's all so tragic and sad.
 
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one therapist suggested once that because my dad's body language changed before he got violent, that I might have learned quickly to survive off that kind of interaction...

This makes a whole lot of sense to me. My dad never gave us any verbal warning when he would turn violent, but his facial expression and body movements are seared into my memory because that was the moment to either run, which made it worse in the long run, cry/fawn/beg which made me feel worse, or freeze and show zero emotion, which was my choice as I got older, the only control I had over the situation.

Each time he acted violent toward me it widened the gap between myself and other humans and closed the gap between myself and animals. Animals helped me forget, and they never attacked me without warning or reason. I learned very early on that my mom, while she never hurt me physically, was unable emotionally to protect me from him, so I lost my attachment to her. Neither parent nor my older sibling protected my emotional life.

Somehow I placed the role of protecting my emotional life on animals. Since other people didn’t have the “gift” of animal communication they couldn’t intrude into my world, and those who did have the gift we’re judged as mostly safe.

@Sweetleaf
 
(Did not finish) Was going to say to Sweetleaf...

I don’t think that was crazy of you at all to have believed you could read peoples’ minds by their body language! Mostly because I had a same experience! I didn’t even realize it was wrong until my therapist at the time told me. And now I see that that neural path is so strong in me that it still arises and I still have to question it. It’s interesting that it is activated when I feel strong or good or successful, when I feel depressed then I don’t feel that tendency as much.
 
Was switching it a conscious process for you,
It was a conscious process. Acknowledgement first. I recognized that my need to attach to animals was due to the feral state that I had been put into as an infant. I gave some time for myself to recognize how it manifested in my life, Then I put a plan into place to build the attachment to myself and my inner children. I attempted to understand them like I was trying to understand animals.
 
I'm forever talking to the beings we've decided to turn into property, be it for a meal or for domestic work/companionship. The wild ones tend to be a bit more magical, though, as they are the ones who show up because of simple natural instincts, not because they were forced to be in my space. I talk to them everywhere I go, even the human variety. I'm also forever apologizing to those unfortunate enough to become livestock on behalf of the human race. The folks that consider me to be "out there" because of that are even more entertaining to talk to, some days. I often speak to and for the animals who can't speak for themselves and who are simply seen as objects/profit margins/menu items rather than sentient living and feeling beings, much more often than not.

I had to drastically change my lifestyle/consumption habits for emergent health reasons and eliminated all animal products (among many other toxic-to-me things), and quickly learned how easily we cast aside and ignore the violent plight of those animals when our bellies growl, without a second thought. After learning (and living it for several years, thus far) that we don't actually need to ingest their flesh and bodily secretions to be fully and healthily nourished, no matter what the marketing tactics and so called education we received have hammered into our brains for life, helped me see my menu choices were much more of a taste bud addiction than actual nourishment.

We also tend to totally overlook the energetic exchanges we engage in while happily munching on the "more affordable" factory-farmed beings who live and die through hellish conditions. The "product" isn't the only thing we digest, by any means. They clearly communicate with us, too, via various symptoms we experience before, during, and after trying to digest and eliminate them. It especially kills me to see animal rescues and proclaimed animal lovers announcing their huge love of animals and asking others to help fund them saving as many as they can while in the same breath having fund raising events where they're selling the flesh and body secretions of other dead animals (definitely the factory-farmed variety due to cost of supplies and such). My heart can't go there now that I've seen all I've seen and lived what I've lived, both on/from big ag farms as well as small, locally owned, and supposedly "humane" operations. But I'm more often viewed as being an ignorant and uncomfortable problem rather than a deeply caring individual. lol Go figure.

I never paid attention to any of that stuff before because I had no pressing need to do so (based solely on what I'd been taught), and had become comfortable in assuming all those symptoms I had were attributed to other things happening within my body, until my health drastically took a turn for the worse and I was facing organ removal. I also used to be strongly convinced it was just natural to kill other beings for our nutritional needs, and had been taught they were clearly put here for us to use as we see fit, being that we are the supposedly more intelligent species and such. Then I started paying closer attention to the path each and every thing took to get to my plate and it's down right sickening and brutal, and was very much a huge part of my overall being since I actively chose to make it my preferred sustenance at least three times a day. Hopefully more communication of a loving-kindness variety can take place between all species that can allow more gentle nurturing of each, rather than the current heart-wrenching methods taking place. The animals also have a lot to say, in my opinion, and I've definitely experienced great benefits (as well as great grief) from becoming a better listener.
 
It was like he knew I was sad and was trying to make me feel better. Intellectually, I think he heard my crying, checked it out out of curiosity, and initiated his usual "GIMME ATTENTION!!!" routine.
I kinda have to dispute this. I am certainly my cat's best friend in the whole wide world and he loves to hang out with me. But I am sure I am not imagining things when I notice that he snuggles up to me much more when I am feeling especially bad.
 
There was a time, when I considered myself a part of a dog pack. It was maybe the first time I felt true belonging. I have spent my life with animals and communicate with them all the time. One of the things that happens, by doing that, is they can learn things you didn't teach them. For example, I have a dog that would constantly step 1 leg over his leash while we were walking. I would fix his leg, saying "Would you lift your leg?" One day I said that to him and he lifted his leg before I had the opportunity to physically reach down and lift his leg. He'd learned the meaning.
I studied animal behavior at University. I became rather disillusioned. They started from the premise that animals couldn't feel or "speak". All of animal behavior was based on those two premises. I remember one of my professors stating that any of us who have spent a lot of time around animals know this isn't true, but we had to be good scientists and act as if they were true. That always troubled me. Good science would be testing a hypothesis.
Now there is a great deal of science that shows that animals can speak. Of course it gets into semantics of how you define speaking and language. What my research has often shown is that as we find animals showing forms of communication, we often change our definition of what constitutes speech or language so that we can make them the domain of humans only.
Regardless, we do know that animals communicate. We know they use body language and sound. We know intersperses communication can happen. To pick a very simple example, the bright coloration of a frog is communicating to predators the idea that it is poisonous to eat. Another simple example, a rattlesnake's rattle is to communicate it's presence and warn of the danger of approach. So, if communication (or however you term that) happens, why not communicate with animals? I certainly will. Perhaps, the caution is, that f you build up a bunch of expectations about what the result of the communication, it's probably good to reality check.
 
I imagine it's a common theme of neglect in childhood we communicate most with pets.

This also makes me quite sensitive to some human body languages.

I also always want to remind people that we are animals anda more realistic terminology might be communicate with other speciebe of animals. By separating us from our reality as humans do it makes things slightly unrealistic.

I love the peace treaty analogy.

I will also add I gave had two doggs who were liars? One would see the other dogs on her favourite bed and bark so that the other dogs ran to the door and then she would get the bed. The other lies to someone who takes care of her for me sometimes and I have watched it. She waits till get puts his gooc on the table to eat then like the other dog barks unt he goes to the for then hops up tkest his food.

She has learnt he never learns ;)
 
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