I’m cutting my hair still and it’s such a quality of life issue improvement. I was always triggered by my own appearance especially the feeling it was out of my control like when you come home from somewhere and you thought you were cool and you have something on your face, clothes or your hair is stupid.
My hair can’t be stupid anymore because I more or less shave my head or have a very severe military style fade. I wear hats it’s winter and you lose a ton of heat when your hair is that short it’s like taking off a helmet. Plus I’ve worn a gaiter which is a face covering through which I can breath comfortably unlike a mask. That’s elastic, and covers the back of my head and over my ears. So I just realized within a day or two that I’ve been relieved of that entire anxiety about my hair. I don’t have to check it on the way out, one less thing. Also about trying to pay someone else to do it which REALLY sux. Appointments or barbershops, I hate both. I also usually was dissatisfied with the haircut I paid for.
So there is always something good in everything, even though you may have to dig for it.