Relationship Desperate, Need Help.

[RockBottom]

Thank you to you all for your kind replies. After a few days of begging him to try couples counselling, give me more time to try and make things better I've realised that there's nothing I can do now and my pride wont let me attempt anything else. He finally told me (via a what's app message) that he's leaving because I once said 'I don't deserve this' (when drunk) and he can't forget that. I think he's pushing me away as he thinks I might run, but now that he's saying he doesn't love me anymore I find I don't want to fight him anymore. It's heartbreaking and my emotions are all over the place. I still think it's mainly down to his illness but even so there's nothing I can do about it. So it's figuring out how to get over it and get on with being a single mum of 3. After 10 years i've no idea where to start but keep being told to take it one day at a time. Once again thank you all.

 

[Thizette]

I'd recommend you see a counselor on your own to sort through your feelings about divorce and single parenthood, and I wish you strength during what may very well be the hardest experience of your life.

 

[RockBottom]

Thanks thizette, I'm waiting for a call from my GP so that he can refer me to a counsellor. I'm not a massive fan of mental health practitioners but a person can only take so much, and I wont wait until I sink before asking for help.

 

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Thank you to you all for your kind replies. After a few days of begging him to try couples counsell...

My deepest compassion for you in this painful time.:(
May you find peace and comfort as you process this loss.:(
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