Hello community…
I’m not a native speaker, so please excuse possible spelling or grammatical mistakes.
I dunno where to ask and I’m afraid, that if I ask in my homecountry someone that I know will find out and relate the question with me.
2 days ago, my family and I were invited to my uncle’s house. I’m 22 btw and he is about 48 or 49 years old. He has a wife and two children. I backed off quite fast to another room because I don’t like too many people around myself. When he came to my room he asked what I was doing and grabbed my tits. I told him to stop and said “no” for several times but he ignored me with a grin on his face . Then he grabbed my face with both of his hands and kissed me. It was my first kiss (yes, I’m 22 and a virgin…well, just if you don’t count the several times he penetrated me with his fingers) and it was disgusting and wet. He slid his hands over my belly and in my underpants. While he was doing his “things” he told me how much of a pretty woman I was, that I made him horny , that it’s my fault that he had a boner and so on. I wanted him to stop and was struggling but he pressed me with his body closer to the wall. Obviously he was stronger than me and inserted one of his big fingers without a warning. You probably can imagine the rest. He penetrated me for a bit with his finger and when he pulled the finger out he jerked off in front of me. He wanted me to watch him but I couldn’t so I just took a short glance and tried to focus myself on the video I was watching (one of my favourite band). Then he left and behaved like nothing just happened.
It wasn’t the first time…it happens from time to time since I was 13. But I can’t tell anyone, my parents wouldn’t understand (I’m not very good with them), and I’m 22, so I have to deal with my problems by myself.
My question now is: did he rape me? I’ve heard that penetrating with a finger counts as rape…but I’m still not sure, yet.
I’m not a native speaker, so please excuse possible spelling or grammatical mistakes.
I dunno where to ask and I’m afraid, that if I ask in my homecountry someone that I know will find out and relate the question with me.
2 days ago, my family and I were invited to my uncle’s house. I’m 22 btw and he is about 48 or 49 years old. He has a wife and two children. I backed off quite fast to another room because I don’t like too many people around myself. When he came to my room he asked what I was doing and grabbed my tits. I told him to stop and said “no” for several times but he ignored me with a grin on his face . Then he grabbed my face with both of his hands and kissed me. It was my first kiss (yes, I’m 22 and a virgin…well, just if you don’t count the several times he penetrated me with his fingers) and it was disgusting and wet. He slid his hands over my belly and in my underpants. While he was doing his “things” he told me how much of a pretty woman I was, that I made him horny , that it’s my fault that he had a boner and so on. I wanted him to stop and was struggling but he pressed me with his body closer to the wall. Obviously he was stronger than me and inserted one of his big fingers without a warning. You probably can imagine the rest. He penetrated me for a bit with his finger and when he pulled the finger out he jerked off in front of me. He wanted me to watch him but I couldn’t so I just took a short glance and tried to focus myself on the video I was watching (one of my favourite band). Then he left and behaved like nothing just happened.
It wasn’t the first time…it happens from time to time since I was 13. But I can’t tell anyone, my parents wouldn’t understand (I’m not very good with them), and I’m 22, so I have to deal with my problems by myself.
My question now is: did he rape me? I’ve heard that penetrating with a finger counts as rape…but I’m still not sure, yet.
