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Hi all,
A very good friend I had vetted out for being "safe" and who i have known for 5 years has gradually been turning snide and mean girl-esque with me to the point that it's starting to trigger old stuff. I have set a time to speak to her about it, but the damage is done in terms of bringing up old scripts and removing my trust from her.
I am feeling like everyone will be abusive towards me because I must have done something wrong /I am passive / i am asking for it/ i am not standing up for myself/ i am projecting weakness/i am stupid/i am socially challenged/i am not as clever witty or "pretty" as the other girls. I need counters to these please as I am feeling hopeless and falling back into believing these things.
I posted a while back that there seemed to be no safe places, I guess there are no safe people as well. She was the last of my "wellness friends" who are actively working on bettering themselves.She is a counsellor and everyone I know looks up to her as a wise loving person.So I feel like it must be me that brings out this behaviour in people.
Thanks for reading,
M
A very good friend I had vetted out for being "safe" and who i have known for 5 years has gradually been turning snide and mean girl-esque with me to the point that it's starting to trigger old stuff. I have set a time to speak to her about it, but the damage is done in terms of bringing up old scripts and removing my trust from her.
I am feeling like everyone will be abusive towards me because I must have done something wrong /I am passive / i am asking for it/ i am not standing up for myself/ i am projecting weakness/i am stupid/i am socially challenged/i am not as clever witty or "pretty" as the other girls. I need counters to these please as I am feeling hopeless and falling back into believing these things.
I posted a while back that there seemed to be no safe places, I guess there are no safe people as well. She was the last of my "wellness friends" who are actively working on bettering themselves.She is a counsellor and everyone I know looks up to her as a wise loving person.So I feel like it must be me that brings out this behaviour in people.
Thanks for reading,
M