@kismet... I tell my son... It's not brave to eat happy cake! <grin> Birthday cake is a fun thing. In order to be brave? You have to be scared.
People who enjoy "scary" things? They're not scary. Not really. They're
thrilling. They're fun. Not something they're actually afraid of. They're not being brave, because they're not afraid. There is no fear. There might be adrenaline in spades, but it's heart pounding excitement, not heart pounding terror.
Being brave isn't fun. It sucks. Being afraid isn't fun, it sucks even harder, IMO (because there's nothing to be done, and action kills fear. Sometimes slowly, sometimes fast, but it still kills the sucker).
I'm an adrenaline junkie. I looooove things that scare a lot of people.
Just because they scare others, though? That doesn't apply to me. Or other people who love love love _________. What we're
actually afraid of? Doesn't matter if it's fluffy toothless declawed kittens. Fear isn't fun. Ever. The only real question is how hard it's going to suck.
Think of anything exciting that you love. Whether it's a good book, or new love, or a sparkle eyed debate, or anything. Absolutely anything exciting. That's the feeling those of us who like "scary" things get instead of fear. Quirky, huh?