KP the nut
MyPTSD Pro
My advice to you both (Meli and EF), would be to take this discussion up, in private, away from this forum. If you need individual support, which I suspect you both do, then I would recommend that you post in PTSD only, and carer only, respectively. I actually admire you both for being able to discuss your feelings about each other so publicly, but I also have concerns that by doing so you may hurt each other. This is just my personal opinion (nothing to do with being a moderator), which you can take or leave.
I was feeling uneasy and stomach churning. I know this is my failing and open discussions are improtant. I can't deal with conflict, I'm sorry. I think seperate posts would be good
Sorry for being a wimp