nursenurse
Diamond Member
It is worth looking after yourself. I don't think there is anyone who would not go through the same thoughts as you, no matter what the circumstances. They can become burdensome, it can be extremtelydifficult to unravel your thoughts and feelings. The two hours spent commuting for help will be worth more than a lifetime of self blame and un rest. Counselling too will take its own sweet time. You did everything you could for him, now do something for you.