Freedomfighter
Diamond Member
I think it is vitally important for victims to share the experiences and lessons learned when it comes to predators. Sorry, long but important post.
Since I am a female who can report several harrowing times of being stalked, harassed, and threatened I would like to help others who may be in the same situation, who are trying to make sense of their situation, or who simply want to not ever get into that situation"
Ladies, here it goes:
A real man is never afraid to openly show interest in a woman.
A predator will do so covertly, hidden from others, why? No witnesses, no law suit claims, believe me at that stage the predator is already so honed in on his victim that nothing else matters.
A real man will never abuse his job, his profession, or even withhold earnings to another human being simply because he has been turned down by the subject of his affection.
A predator is more than happy to use any leverage he can get, even if that means to showcase the victim as a worker with no experience, even to the point of not paying that employee what she is worth. If that allows the predator to somehow get to the victim he will use those charades.
A real man will never attempt to confuse a woman he likes. A real man respects a member of the other gender. A real man knows that when a woman shows disinterest it is actually to his own benefit to not pursue her, saving himself from unnecessary pain.
A predator lives for confusing his victim, he shows great disrespect by attempting to confuse his victim and will mockingly display "HIS disinterest" to shock, shame, and attack a victim. He believes in wearing the victim down. He will simply ignore the very first time he ever noticed or heard the word "NO".
A real man would never lower himself to let easy women get close to him.
A predator is only able to get easy women, while hunting for the women he is really interested in. He will gladly use such easy women who in turn will harass the subject of his affection in order to please him.
A real man does not show up unexpectedly to cross paths with someone he admires.
A predator will very carefully plan such instances in order to surprise and confuse the victim, often without saying a word, but very clearly attempting to threaten the victim by displaying his ability to get to the victim whenever he wants to. This is especially the case when the predator makes sure that he "catches" the victim when no one else is around, attempting to make the victim believe that he controls her destiny.
A real man is not threatened by "friendly" competition and has a healthy understanding of his strong and weak points.
A predator is deathly afraid of real men, since he will easily be detected as the lemon in the lot as soon as a real man enters the scene. This will often prompt predators to do anything possible to isolate the victim, so they will never get the chance to get what they deserve.
The predator will also very strongly go against anyone that may come in his path.
A real man would never undermine someone he cares about or hurt someone he cares about.
A predator thrives on hurting and surprising the victim, and he will carefully plan the event of libel, coupled with actions that will falsify the actions of the victim as the exact opposite of what they appear to be. Often the predator will make sure this happens in a well traveled and open area, to collect plenty of witnesses for this spectacle.
A real man when in a secure relationship would never ever attempt to get to other women.
A predator will use marriage, engagement, or other relationship as his alibi, perfect way to hunt for victims.
There, these are only a view of the examples. I was stalked by a young male and this stalking ended in me having PTSD. I was deadly ill, close to suicide. When I reported the offenses to the first person he did nothing and allowed the predator to continue. When I officially handed in a written report to another worker in the same department this very same individual slipped right into the role of the previous predator (after he got rid of the first one). It did not occur to me that what he did mirrored the actions of the stalker that gave me PTSD. I trusted for this individual to help me and to get justice, this individual however turned around and did all of the above mentioned acts. The fact that this person was employed as a security guard is shocking. I do not even want to give this person a gender in my description, he is just a predator.
Since I am a female who can report several harrowing times of being stalked, harassed, and threatened I would like to help others who may be in the same situation, who are trying to make sense of their situation, or who simply want to not ever get into that situation"
Ladies, here it goes:
A real man is never afraid to openly show interest in a woman.
A predator will do so covertly, hidden from others, why? No witnesses, no law suit claims, believe me at that stage the predator is already so honed in on his victim that nothing else matters.
A real man will never abuse his job, his profession, or even withhold earnings to another human being simply because he has been turned down by the subject of his affection.
A predator is more than happy to use any leverage he can get, even if that means to showcase the victim as a worker with no experience, even to the point of not paying that employee what she is worth. If that allows the predator to somehow get to the victim he will use those charades.
A real man will never attempt to confuse a woman he likes. A real man respects a member of the other gender. A real man knows that when a woman shows disinterest it is actually to his own benefit to not pursue her, saving himself from unnecessary pain.
A predator lives for confusing his victim, he shows great disrespect by attempting to confuse his victim and will mockingly display "HIS disinterest" to shock, shame, and attack a victim. He believes in wearing the victim down. He will simply ignore the very first time he ever noticed or heard the word "NO".
A real man would never lower himself to let easy women get close to him.
A predator is only able to get easy women, while hunting for the women he is really interested in. He will gladly use such easy women who in turn will harass the subject of his affection in order to please him.
A real man does not show up unexpectedly to cross paths with someone he admires.
A predator will very carefully plan such instances in order to surprise and confuse the victim, often without saying a word, but very clearly attempting to threaten the victim by displaying his ability to get to the victim whenever he wants to. This is especially the case when the predator makes sure that he "catches" the victim when no one else is around, attempting to make the victim believe that he controls her destiny.
A real man is not threatened by "friendly" competition and has a healthy understanding of his strong and weak points.
A predator is deathly afraid of real men, since he will easily be detected as the lemon in the lot as soon as a real man enters the scene. This will often prompt predators to do anything possible to isolate the victim, so they will never get the chance to get what they deserve.
The predator will also very strongly go against anyone that may come in his path.
A real man would never undermine someone he cares about or hurt someone he cares about.
A predator thrives on hurting and surprising the victim, and he will carefully plan the event of libel, coupled with actions that will falsify the actions of the victim as the exact opposite of what they appear to be. Often the predator will make sure this happens in a well traveled and open area, to collect plenty of witnesses for this spectacle.
A real man when in a secure relationship would never ever attempt to get to other women.
A predator will use marriage, engagement, or other relationship as his alibi, perfect way to hunt for victims.
There, these are only a view of the examples. I was stalked by a young male and this stalking ended in me having PTSD. I was deadly ill, close to suicide. When I reported the offenses to the first person he did nothing and allowed the predator to continue. When I officially handed in a written report to another worker in the same department this very same individual slipped right into the role of the previous predator (after he got rid of the first one). It did not occur to me that what he did mirrored the actions of the stalker that gave me PTSD. I trusted for this individual to help me and to get justice, this individual however turned around and did all of the above mentioned acts. The fact that this person was employed as a security guard is shocking. I do not even want to give this person a gender in my description, he is just a predator.
