Have to say just plain validation helps an awful lot, gosh. I started ' getting better ' SO rapidly after meeting my husband- crazy. He LIKED me, it kind of progressed from there. Nope, not claiming wellness, but compared to where I was, am unrecognizable as having both legs to stand on ( among other things ). There's never, ever any 'Buts' with him. You know, ' You're such a nice person Anni, even though you sometimes do XYZ '. None. Helped me also understand how mandatory it is to disallow those other voices any entrance at all into our lives. Pure poison.
Hugs. MUCH luck getting into your group, fingers crossed and re-crossed. :)
Hugs. MUCH luck getting into your group, fingers crossed and re-crossed. :)