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I can't do this anymore

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then tomorrow, call.... let them know how bad you want this place.. how perfect it would be for you and the baby... you have a voice Casey, use it..... the worst that is going to happen is that you wont get it... but let them know.... you have nothing to loose by being excited and letting them know you are..... good luck.. sounds perfect for you and LM....
 
I'm completely screwed. Can't stop crying. I told the place with the stairs yes and the guy said the latest he could wait for the money was today. Well, I didn't get paid on time. So I only have 2/3 of the money now. And I highly doubt he'll wait longer for it.

So there goes that.

Really kicking myself right now for paying for therapy for these past few months. See, if I had known my family wanted me out now, I wouldn't have spent my money on getting therapy.

I'm hyperventilating and seriously considering going to a hospital. But then what happens to little man?
 
@Casey_03 I'm in the same place as you are and I'm not doing great either. I'm sorry for the both of us. One is young and has a child to take care of and the other is too f*cking old to be going through this shit.

Just hag in there.... I'm trying, so you need to.
 
What would be the move in date for the bad stairs place? Is it vacated? Has he given you a contract to review? Buy time, you need to review the contract and a full inspection prior to handing over funds.
 
The bad stairs place is already out. He wants the money today, and I only have two-thirds of it. He said he won't wait. I should've received my paycheck by now but I didn't. Other place is out too. I'm looking at shelters.
 
Have you looked in to share housing opportunities. Have to be careful, but not impossible to find a good fit. Check with local St Vincent for resources, and sometimes local food bank orgs have housing resources staff. My gut tells me that the slum lord would not have been a good situation.

Can your family and you also an inheritor evict you prior to sale?
 
I don't think they can. There are probably legal mechanisms for me to stay, but they can (and are) making it impossible for me to stay here -- i.e. cutting the power so I lose the Internet when I need to be working, having plumbers come when I'm trying to sleep, etc. I can't risk losing my only source of income.
 
Cutting the power is weird. How are you supposed to care for a baby without making food, bathing, etc. I would call a legal aid place and see what they can do. If it about upgrading replacing power, they should schedule the time.
 
They always have excuses for cutting the power -- replacing the dishwasher, doing electrical work, etc. They never give me notice though, so they basically just show up when I'm working, I get kicked off with no warning and have to explain to my boss why I miss part of my shift. I told them they have to give me notice so I can go elsewhere for my shift, otherwise I'm pretty sure it's illegal. They said they would but continue to do this. Last time I wasn't given notice, I wouldn't let the plumbers in, but that then resulted in a very dramatic screaming match and threats to call the police that just made matters a million times worse, and the baby insanely upset all day. The bottom line is -- yes, I can stay here and fight the eviction, fight their disruptions and so forth, but I guarantee it will cause me a nervous breakdown. And I will lose my child. Guarantee it. I'm already close.

This is me against three family members who have teamed up with neighbors. Remember that to the neighbors especially, I'm just some girl they don't know who just came back from Eastern Europe out of nowhere, who (according to my grandma, when she was still alive and senile and calling around to the neighbors) frequently stole things from her, including her car, and treated her poorly. My aunt (the executor of the will) is basically doing the same thing my grandma was doing and calling around to the neighbors to spread lies about me. I confronted her via text message about the eviction, asking why she had been encouraging me to stay all this time if she knew i'd have to be out, and she says this was me "being nasty" and bullying her. I didn't even use a single curse word in these text messages and was very restrained, but she is playing the victim and now claiming all sorts of insane things. So basically, she's convinced everyone around me, including my family, that i'm some horrible person trying to milk the situation to stay in the house forever.
 
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