(((Grim))) I am glad you are good today. I too hope the feeling good lasts a long, long time:).
I hope this post does not disturb you in any way. I was not sure whether to write it or not.
I am so sorry to hear that you were abused by a person who was trusted to look after children. Your story is close to my heart because my ex, who I was married to for 23 years, was abused by his grandmother when he was 8 years old. She was a schoolteacher who taught infants. He could not understand how anyone, let alone someone in a position of trust, could be inappropriate in such a way with a child. His parents are dead now but he too has unanswered questions of whether she abused his father or the boys in her class. He was very angry with his parents because the abuse happened in his home when she was staying over and they were in the next bedroom.
You seem to have such a lot going on at the moment with your research into the case, your mother's tests and father's recovery. I understand though that you need to put it all in order by finding out what became of the other people. You must be very angry that other children were abused too and he got away with it for a some time. I hope you find the answers here and that elusive therapist!
I hope looking after your parents gets a bit easier and you find someone to help you find the answers you are looking for and get peace of mind. :cautious:
I hope this post does not disturb you in any way. I was not sure whether to write it or not.
I am so sorry to hear that you were abused by a person who was trusted to look after children. Your story is close to my heart because my ex, who I was married to for 23 years, was abused by his grandmother when he was 8 years old. She was a schoolteacher who taught infants. He could not understand how anyone, let alone someone in a position of trust, could be inappropriate in such a way with a child. His parents are dead now but he too has unanswered questions of whether she abused his father or the boys in her class. He was very angry with his parents because the abuse happened in his home when she was staying over and they were in the next bedroom.
You seem to have such a lot going on at the moment with your research into the case, your mother's tests and father's recovery. I understand though that you need to put it all in order by finding out what became of the other people. You must be very angry that other children were abused too and he got away with it for a some time. I hope you find the answers here and that elusive therapist!
I hope looking after your parents gets a bit easier and you find someone to help you find the answers you are looking for and get peace of mind. :cautious:
