Relationship I Had Enough And Took A Break, In 2 Weeks He's Been With 2 People

[Becksknox]

I finally came to my breaking point. Things had been so good and I hadn't been here to post. Then one day I get a text asking if he and I were together. It was a "friend" that I knew he spent time with. Through our texts I found out he had been sleeping with her for 3 months. Devastated doesn't begin to describe it.
the rolling weekend he had moved on from us both to some else. He did the same last year. I am heartbroken because I know without a doubt I won't take him back this time if he comes crawling.

When I tell him we are finished, he gets upset and says just remember you did this! Yet he frequently tells me don't ever call or text again.

I just need support and why!?!?!? I am going to therapy and getting so much better but I feel this set me back to the beginning. Someone help me.

 

[Sweetpea76]

Oh hell naw! Cheaters suck, especially repeat offenders. I wouldn't care if he had PTSD, Bipolar, Claustrophobia, Kleptomania, Narcolepsy, and Schizophrenia, combined with a hysterical pregnancy and a penetrating TBI... there is no excuse. Cheating is a no-go.

What a douche. I'm sorry @Becksknox :(

 

[Friday]

You gave him a chance.

He done f*cked up that chance. If he comes back apologizing? Good. He should be sorry. But being sorry doesn't erase what happened. Once may be a mistake. Twice is a choice. That's not your fault in any way, shape, or form. Neither in giving him a chance, nor in his blowing it.

 

[reallydown]

Hang in there @Becksnox...He is a douche. Unfortunately, with these things, it's that "if s/he does it once, s/he'll do it again"...You were more than fair in giving him another chance. You deserve better. Just as a side, I have a friend who's with a guy who *probably* cheats on her...messes with her self-confidence, has her pretty much on a leash...and yet she stays with him...She says she tried to break up with him several times but he won't let her. The problem is she has a mental illness and so she is convinced that it's all her fault...Why I say this is be careful and don't let yourself fall into that trap!

 

[Truthful_Whispers]

He says you did it? I'm pretty sure you weren't on the scene to unzip his pants and then pull his unit out for him. What a pos. Dump him

 

[Becksknox]

@Sweetpea76 Your response had me laughing. He is a douche and doesn't take responsibility for anything he does and wants to then complain how I act to his actions.

To all of you that responded, thank you. I realize now the emotional abuse he was causing me and I'm slow,y coming out of it though I have my bad days and miss him....I guess I'm an idiot but he is obviously a narcissist and I need to suck it up and kiss his arse to the curb when it happens again!!!