I Need Help....:(

[EveHarrington]

Wishing you well this last week of school. I know it's tough but you can get through it!

 

[Michael Plumley]

Oh my gosh, I am having such a life.......

I am 13 years old and was diagnosed with anxiety...

Please, you don't deserved to be physically harassed for ANYTHING you say. Get yourself away from people and places where you are being physically attacked. Keep talking about this to your caregivers (parents, teachers, etc) until somebody listens.

 

[Bob R]

Oh my gosh, I am having such a life.......

I am 13 years old and was diagnosed with anxiety...

First things first ... such is life ... things happen :-( ... everday and most of it pertains to other's interaction and you accepting it as your bagage. Short resolution is to seek support on laying it down on a daily basis and not picking it up again.
Second ... from your post I see way too much storage of everything you hear, see and smell freshly churnning around in your head. In other.words you think tooooo much about other people. It is very much of being a teenager and growing up. Like I said ... life happens.
Best advice for swiftest and best results ... get someone you trust to help you find a support group or maybe a couple criend you can talk to and help you to work through a few issues successfully and in reasonable time you will know the tools to navigate life and avoid the potholes.
You are not alone. God bless
A friend who cares!
Bob

 

[Knak]

Oh my gosh, I am having such a life.......

I am 13 years old and was diagnosed with anxiety...

I would say you are totally vulnerable and not capable of protecting yourself due to your age and experience. You don't recognize your dad's drinking is a trauma so already shows you are submitting to others telling you what is true or false.

If your ability to believe your instincts is taken from you, you are in grave danger and you are too young to have to deal with the amount of physical and emotional threats on your life without realistic support.

I believe it's essential for your health and future to find someone to support and protect you. Unfortunately I don't know what environment you live in to point out that person or group. Also unfortunately whoever you go to may not have the ability to give you the help you need which could do further harm.

Anyone who belittles what you are going through is only adding to your dangerous situation. Every human being needs to learn to stand firm about what is right and what is wrong, and to protect themselves without having to explain why before they get help.

No human is able to stand up alone under attack unless they've been taught how and the different situations that merit defending yourself. We all need others to help us and reassure us and teach us the best way to resolve problems or when it is best to escape if you can't protect yourself.

The counselors at school or trusted teachers or family would be ideal but often they don't know or care enough so I would hate to point you there if they only make it worse. I have heard so many horror stories of children who sought help only to be hurt by the one they confide in.

Use your instincts to think of someone you believe is a good person who respects human life enough to help you. If you feel they don't respect you then don't listen to them either.

 

[nycowboy]

I know what you are going through.

I was bullied in elementary school and still feel scared when people come from behind me. A couple weeks ago I was seated at the kitchen table and my 9 year old son stood behind me. I got really anxious, and all he wanted to do was give me a hug :( It was horrible.

Thanks for coming here to this forum. Help is here. You need a good therapist too. It is very very important that you get help, and get it now. Try to talk to your parents about what you are going through. Acknowledge what has happened and don't tell the negative voices in your head to shut up. They will just scream louder.

Kids can be evil.

I am saying this so that you don't end up 45 years old like me and still struggle each day with the bullying I endured as a child.

 

[nycowboy]

Have you talked to your principal or even your school superintendent? Most schools have jumped on the the "no bullying" wagon. I'm a teacher - I should know.

Those girls could and SHOULD be getting in HUGE trouble.

Dear Superintendent X:

My name is X and I am a student at X school. When XXX died, I did a dumb thing and posted a comment about wearing pink on Facebook. This was poor judgement on my part. However, I am being completely victimized by the following students, and it is making school unbearable. I am having severe anxiety attacks from being bullied by these girls.

These are the girls:
1
2
3
4

This is what #1 did to me (#2, etc.) BE FACTUAL. Be as specific, even down to the exact words that they used. Under NO circumstances make anything up or lie. If you aren't sure exactly what they said to you, be as specific as you can, but don't exaggerate. Try not to be emotional. Just say these are the kids, and this is what they are doing to me.

Conclude by saying that this bullying is having an extremely detrimental effect on my school life. My grades are suffering and I am living in total fear of these girls. This bullying needs to be stopped immediately and I need your help.

Thank you.


Even if you are in cyberschool, still send the letter. These girls need to know that they are acting criminally. At the least, they will be suspended.

Again, I'm a teacher. I know what I'm doing here. Good luck.