I see that no one has posted here for a while. I would like to ask if I'm in a shut-out or beak up? After seeing my guy ( sufferer )for about six months, he moved in with me (late July). We were living like the odd couple because he likes disarray and I like organization, which although I wasn't super happy about it, I accepted it; I would actually try to help him. He's a full-time student and I was a full time employee until August 12. Looking back to the week after my lay off, I noticed how disconnected and uncaring he had become, but I wasn't aware of what to expect. I remember Wednesday, August 16, he sat at the table and explained that he wanted to break up because I was being too much for him and that he didn't need me to keep focusing on relationships which he said we moved too fast with in the beginning. I remember him enjoying every aspect of our relationship from the beginning up until August, and he reminded me that he would not be leaving this relationship due to my being a good catch. He left my home August 18, while I was at work during the day time after I thought he had went to school. He called me to see where I was and he was acting so weird on our call, but now I understand. He also accused me of cheating on him which really made my head spin. So, after about a few days, we decided to speak about what happened, and after my making a fool of myself on the phone with him about how things could definitely get better, he decides to text me with a break up due to our not being compatible ( head spin ). We had been compatible up until that point; I've always told him that there may be spats here and there but that doesn't mean throw in the towel. So, since then we have been in communication regularly ( not everyday) and I've spent a little time with him one afternoon recently; while together he said he missed me and loves me as I do him, and that there was no hate between us only love. I explained that I was entertaining relocation due to my losing my job one week, and losing him the following week. He said that he didn't want that to happen and that he needed me in his life. So my question is, what in the world does that sound like to you? A shut-out or a break up?
