Hey!
My husband has PTSD and moved out of our home saying that he wants a divorce but then not about 4-5 months ago. I found out a couple months ago that he is having an affair. After I found out he changed his phone number on me and now I heard he's moving to a new place.
I know his phone number but I really don't want to call him on it. His family is also disowning me and wont contact me or answer my calls. He works all the time and he still hasn't gotten any papers and I refuse to because I want him back.
All his bills are way over due, they still come to our home and he said he would take care of them since I used to pay for most of them. He keeps asking his father for money and then no one knows what he spends it on. People are asking me if they think he's hooked on something but I have no idea. He doesn't want to talk to me or see me because "it hurts him too much". I'm really worried about him and want to help so bad but he completely has shut me out.
Do you think that shutting me out completely still means that he does have strong feelings for me? Its really hard for me to understand. He just got paid today and he spent his money at a pawn shop I found out. Usually he only buys guns at pawn shops so I am quite worried and he's not getting to his therapy appt's either.
What do you think I should do?
My husband has PTSD and moved out of our home saying that he wants a divorce but then not about 4-5 months ago. I found out a couple months ago that he is having an affair. After I found out he changed his phone number on me and now I heard he's moving to a new place.
I know his phone number but I really don't want to call him on it. His family is also disowning me and wont contact me or answer my calls. He works all the time and he still hasn't gotten any papers and I refuse to because I want him back.
All his bills are way over due, they still come to our home and he said he would take care of them since I used to pay for most of them. He keeps asking his father for money and then no one knows what he spends it on. People are asking me if they think he's hooked on something but I have no idea. He doesn't want to talk to me or see me because "it hurts him too much". I'm really worried about him and want to help so bad but he completely has shut me out.
Do you think that shutting me out completely still means that he does have strong feelings for me? Its really hard for me to understand. He just got paid today and he spent his money at a pawn shop I found out. Usually he only buys guns at pawn shops so I am quite worried and he's not getting to his therapy appt's either.
What do you think I should do?
