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@lolamarie1800. You are truly sharing the truth here! I know personally of...
And that's the problem, there is no awareness that, not all families are loving, and in fact, are downright atrocious to relatives, particularly, children. Let's not forget--that children are victimized the most because they can't fight back, and enraged adult abusers use them as "poison containers" to unleash the horrors of their childhood abuse. Most adult abusers, were in fact, abused as children themselves so they feel the need and urge to project it onto their children as to avoid harming themselves. Society should as an effort protect children, re-educate the public about the blanketed myth that all families are loving and caring. Abusers usually hate their children and really don't want them other than to exploit and abuse them. I know this isn't something that most would like to hear because it is the truth and only knowing and accepting it is the only way this problem can be dealt with. There's hardly a day that goes by when you hear or see the news of some family dispute where someone is murdered or there is murder-suicide; and in a lot of cases, children are murdered by enraged unfit caretakers, who have issues themselves resulting from their childhood, and children should not be in their care, period. Most families of these enraged adults with children are blind to this truth and will go to the ends of the earth to protect these unfit parents out of family loyalty and bloodline. It really doesn't matter if that parent is abusive to their children and it has been witnessed by other relatives because they believe that children should not be taken away from their bio parents no matter what. In a way, I blame the extended family for the deaths and abuses of many children because they turn a blind-eye. They are just as guilty, in my opinion, as the abuser themselves. It appears that they have no interest in protecting children and treat them like slaves, pieces of owned property to be used and abused to their content. Children have no escape route in this madness. Let's not forget most parents who are abusive to their children and other relatives, are either sociopaths or psychopaths, and according to psychiatry, there is no cure for those types of mental illnesses. So, what should one do to protect themselves, leave and disconnect from them to prevent the abuse from occurring all over again. Sociopaths and psychopaths know very well how to fake their emotions and plead with their victims making it appear to be sincere, when in fact, we know that it is all a ruse because they simply have no conscious. These individuals will go to therapy and fool the therapist into believing that treatment is working for them when it is not. That is, they know how to go along to get along ,and are aware of biblical teachings such as forgiveness in which they hammer it down the throats of their victims coercing them into forgiving them ,by simply using the guilt factor. There's only one thing to do in these situations, LEAVE! It appears that sociopaths and psychopaths are one step ahead of humanity and that is very sad, and outsmart them
