FauxLiz
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I have been expecting this since quarantine started, well actually before that but yeah at least the last three months. It wasn't that he was so adamant about not breaking quarantine because we were both essential workers it was that every time I reached out to talk or text he was "exhausted, beat, fell asleep early" but if I would go more than a couple of days without reaching out he would make an excuse during business hours to contact me about something tangentially connected to both our jobs. Like he didn't want to be ignored but he didn't want to talk to me either.
So with restriction being lifted on the quarantine where we live I thought okay, maybe, just maybe we will get a chance to see each other. First weekend he went to see his son and soon to be DIL, I get that, next weekend he has a house full of company from out of the area, but still doesn't have time to even talk to me. Okay I can see where this is going, last weekend he went to see his son again because they are buying a house and the inspection was last friday. I left him alone, didn't text nothing. I have gone for a walk on his hunting land on Sunday and sent him a couple of pictures because there were some pretty good sized branches that had come down across his trails and didn't get a response back, that was unusual so last night I texted and just asked if he make it back okay as I hadn't heard from him in awhile. His response was "Thanks Mommy", I was pissed and I told him so, that I was trying to be a good friend and that wouldn't happen again. He responded with wow, chill, it was a joke, didn't deserve a curse word. To which I didn't respond because well I was pissed,
I don't know if I am happy that it must have bothered him some because he never stays up past 10 and just after 1 am he texted me to tell me off that it was the second time that I had gone "apeshit" on him. No worries about being nice again because he is out.
I know what my T will say about this, because we have talked about the unhealthy dynamic of the relationship with his seeming to exhibit narcissistic behaviors and heaven knows my ill advised co-dependency issues begging for any bit of attention. It just hurts and is frustrating because it feeds the insecurity that I have had with this relationship from the beginning which was that as soon as I had helped him to achieve the projects and goals that he had that were interconnected with my job/employer that he would drop me like a hot potato because who was I fooling to think someone like him would ever really be interested in someone like me.
So with restriction being lifted on the quarantine where we live I thought okay, maybe, just maybe we will get a chance to see each other. First weekend he went to see his son and soon to be DIL, I get that, next weekend he has a house full of company from out of the area, but still doesn't have time to even talk to me. Okay I can see where this is going, last weekend he went to see his son again because they are buying a house and the inspection was last friday. I left him alone, didn't text nothing. I have gone for a walk on his hunting land on Sunday and sent him a couple of pictures because there were some pretty good sized branches that had come down across his trails and didn't get a response back, that was unusual so last night I texted and just asked if he make it back okay as I hadn't heard from him in awhile. His response was "Thanks Mommy", I was pissed and I told him so, that I was trying to be a good friend and that wouldn't happen again. He responded with wow, chill, it was a joke, didn't deserve a curse word. To which I didn't respond because well I was pissed,
I don't know if I am happy that it must have bothered him some because he never stays up past 10 and just after 1 am he texted me to tell me off that it was the second time that I had gone "apeshit" on him. No worries about being nice again because he is out.
I know what my T will say about this, because we have talked about the unhealthy dynamic of the relationship with his seeming to exhibit narcissistic behaviors and heaven knows my ill advised co-dependency issues begging for any bit of attention. It just hurts and is frustrating because it feeds the insecurity that I have had with this relationship from the beginning which was that as soon as I had helped him to achieve the projects and goals that he had that were interconnected with my job/employer that he would drop me like a hot potato because who was I fooling to think someone like him would ever really be interested in someone like me.