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Memory And Calendars

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Post Traumatic Stress Disorder carries with it a great number of difficulties and challenges. At times it can be daunting to carry out one’s daily tasks within the maelstrom of an endocrine system run amok. One of the greatest challenges of my personal journey is memory.

PTSD can have profound effects on an individual’s recollection. Memory is deeply tied to an area of the brain which is known as the limbic region. The seat of emotions and autonomic nervous function, the limbic region was one of the first parts of the human brain to evolve, and it forms the foundation upon which all higher brain functions depend.

The hippocampus is a structure within the limbic region which governs the creation of new memories and the association of stimuli to recover both new and old memories. Unfortunately, it is also a part of the brain which is deeply impacted by trauma and can, in certain circumstances, be permanently altered by PTSD.

But how does this all tie in with the daily life of a PTSD survivor? In my own experience, it was nearly impossible to properly structure my life and career at times due to challenges with memory. Whether rent, bills, birthdays or just common reminders, it was extremely difficult to keep track of anything for long. Some of these challenges remain with me today. At times, it feels as if my memory is made of swiss cheese.

However, I've found that one of the most effective ways of dealing with my own PTSD is to become as organized as possible, and this included an online calendar. There are many calendar apps out there, and finding one that suits your tastes is easy as pie. In my case, I chose to use "Sunrise Calendar," as I could access it anywhere, and also route it through my Android smartphone. Google and Apple also have apps that are readily available.

By using an online calendar, I was able to let go and relax. It does take some work to set up at first, but I found the rewards to be well worth the cost in time. I put everything in there. Rent, bills, work-related tasks, medical and dentist appointments and everything from daily to annual reminders--everything. Today’s existing calendar apps are very robust and allow you to make entries from any computer with an internet connection.

With options for color-coding, alarms, snooze functions, multiple calendars and sharing features, the amount by which I was able to simplify my life was astounding. I now have separate calendars set up for work and play, for family gatherings and game night with my friends. I have different colors for tasks of different urgency. Bills and work deadlines are red, groceries and home maintenance tasks are green, et cetera. By integrating the calendar with my Gmail and Facebook accounts, I have everyone’s birthday already included as well as reminders for meetings of online interest groups. All of these things are now organized and no longer elusively whirling around my brain.

The results were immediate and dramatic. My family appreciates getting calls and e-cards for their birthdays. My boss is very pleased with my increased efficiency at work. My finances are in much better shape, and overall my entire life been benefited. Above all, organizing my time has given me time to organize many other things in my life. It is all a great deal simpler.

Our symptoms are cryptic, sometimes subtle, and always powerful. They can seem overwhelming at times. But with modern technology and the rise of the internet, there are many ways in which we can work around our challenges, and reduce the impact of those symptoms. Organization is the key, and there are many tools available to help us along the way. Merely downloading an online calendar could mitigate some of the effects PTSD has on your life.
 
I absolutely agree with you and Wow, very well spoken.
Some tidbits I would like to add pro and con; everyone feel open to respond to....

I have NEVER been a person of calendars and organization, I used to be all about the chaos of life. So it was quite a change for me to flip over to even buying a organization calendar or using my phone for reminders and appointments to keep me in check. This has been really helpful for the most part., (I buy the old school notebook monthly calendar things because there's something about writing it down as well as I cant see a huge monthly break down on my I phone like I can on the paper version). I agree with the "let go and relax", ever since PTSD hit me hard my memory has been absolute crap. So I agree with you there 100%
Here are the problems I am encountering:
While I will get up for appointments, volunteer agreements, big things like that, my morning depression has lately been so bad that if its something like a work out class I like at 9 am or to go to the library to read my PTSD workbook, my phone alarm will go off, I will totally hear the bad voice, hit the alarm half asleep and say F that, go back to bed and sleep till 11am. I'm in this horrible pattern where while I am taking a break from working, I went back to my old habit of night owl go to bed late-but now with partial counseling and awareness of complex PTSD, I am in a mega medicating with alcohol and food phase and staying up late not only because I'm a night owl but because I'm not in a place of peace with what has happened to me therefore, had so many night terrors that I am petrified to go to sleep, ESPECIALLY sober or any bit hungry. My therapist said they are to the level of "re-traumatizing' myself when they happen. The whole bed is soaked with sweat, sometimes I wake up screaming, sometimes I hit my husband if he touches me in my sleep to try to help. It's bad. So I guess the calendar helps, but I just have so many other issues that happen before the day even starts that hinder the effectiveness of the calendar. Does anyone else deal with this ? Any wisdom to share?
 
I prefer a hard copy calendar with all my dates on it. This way, if for any reason my computer or my phone are not working or get lost or stolen, (yes, I had a computer stolen once and I once left my phone somewhere, but thankfully I went back and it was still there. What if it had not been though? I would have been without it until I could replace it, input all my numbers into it, etc). I have a hard copy monthly calendar with all my appointments, bus reservations and so on, on it. I don't do any internet activities on my phone, as I pay by the minute. I don't use my phone that often, but you know....

Memory, though, is quite another issue entirly. I suffer from 3 kinds of memory loss. One is due to a medicine I take (Amitriptyline) one is due to PTSD and the last is due to my age, which is not young! Yes, memory problems plague me a lot. So I have alarms set on my 2 cell phones, one is no longer a phone, but still works as an alarm. I just charge it every once in awhile... then I have one alarm on my working phone so far, but I imagine as time goes on, I will need to place more of them on there. I use alarms for meds reminders, bedtimes reminders, wakeup reminders and one alarm only goes off once per week, but it reminds me to call and make my bus reservations for the week. We have door to door service with our transit company, as we live way out in the country and the buses have to travel long distances between businesses, Dr. offices, homes and shopping places, etc. I don't own a car, so I use this service a lot!
 
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This is a huge deal. Like I wrote an important but stressful event down and:

1. Didn't see it today.
2. Didn't put in on the Outlook calendar so thought I hadn't put it on the paper one either, so didn't look carefully there.
3. Was asking my boss for the info, when I had it all along.
4. Memorized 30 mins off. I am usually exactly 30 mins off the original, and I have no idea why. I will remember 9:30 am instead of 9 am. It's damn frustrating.

Usually, this only has to do with employment. Not medical appointments, not other meetings, just work.
 
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