My Husband Just Told Me He's Leaving Me

[The Albatross]

Excuse? surely... but not a reason. Your behavior is your behavior.

 

[The Albatross]

You're cross posting on Riot's thread that you've been replaced yet you aren't discussing that here. My mister and another peer's here had a plan "b" too. Wanna talk about it?

 

[UnKnown-Self]

@The Albatross said need wine to to open your eyes in the morning? Ack... I'd take a hard look at that one.
If you need some wine,beer, vodka, weed a piil of whatever to get down, you need to look at that.
It is not only your responsibility. That we as women will numb ourselves to allow our bodies to participate in one of life's gifts makes me so f*cking angry. Not at men, but at society in general. That guilt and pressure to be pleasing. That desire to be pleased. Really f*cks with us as women who have been sexually abused. That we feel responsible not only for making sure our partner is pleased but question what is wrong with us when we don't melt with the fire and blame ourselves for that too.
I'm 57 widowed and speaking for myself, I am glad I can keep well stocked in batteries. If I want to I do, if I think I want to and realize this just ain't gonna happen, I can stop. No apologizes, no guilt, maybe a little disappointment but it is what it is.
I have heard they are out there but how many men are willing to put their willies ego aside and bring a little assistance to the situation? How many women would be comfortable suggesting it, let alone be too embarrassed to let their hubbies, even if they were willing, to do it? Sex is not something we "should do" because if we don't somehow we are failures as women. It's something that should be shared, without guilt, shame or a substance to get through it. But a little electronic buzz, to help things along is perfectly acceptable. One more thing... Sex should be FUN! I never spoke up when I should have, I was too embarrassed and ashamed. You can be sure if I ever have another sexual partner, he's gonna know, I need some assistance, if he can't dig it, then I'll say my 2nd favorite four letter word NEXT! Just an old ladies opinion.

 

[Deleted member 33052]

Not a reason.

Albatross, if you don't like to read my comments, or if you hate my sense of humour, please feel free to ignore my posts. I don't understand why you seem to feel hostility towards me, but that's your right. But please, stop with the judgemental comments.

 

[Deleted member 33052]

I'm not trying to annoy anyone. I simply wanted to inject some humour into the comment I posted on Riot's thread.

 

[ladee]

Humor has saved my life on many occasions...At some point I just had to laugh at myself , so, humor is good.. I love humor... takes my mind off the crap we deal with all the time... hugs to you funny person !!:hug::hug::hug:

 

[The Albatross]

Right. Humor. Hostility? Nope. Just seeing what you're telling yourself when you're posting.

 

[Deleted member 33052]

Humor has saved my life on many occasions...At some point I just had to laugh at myself , so, humor is go...

Thank you, my friend. :hug: Now, can you tell me what the f*ck is going on? :confused:

 

[ladee]

One of the things I love about this forum, take what you need and leave the rest. Concentrate on what is helping you and continue to use your humor... It is thru my own humor sometimes, that I find my own truth....Just keep being Mal, it's gotten you this far !!:hug:

 

[Deleted member 33052]

One of the things I love about this forum, take what you need and leave the rest. Concentrate on what is...

Ladee, you rock! :)

 

[ladee]

Chica Boom, Chica Boom, Chica Boom Boom Boom !! Shakin' my money maker !!!:roflmao:

 

[Deleted member 33052]

@The Albatross said need wine to to open your eyes in the morning? Ack......

You are so right! I taught my daughters to own their bodies and own their sexuality, and they're able to enjoy sex without fear or shame. My mother taught me that only sluts have orgasms. Took me years to shed that lie...