My Husband Just Told Me He's Leaving Me

[Deleted member 33052]

For those of you who haven't been bored to tears yet, we have had a wonderful breakthrough. After staying up all night talking the last two nights, I'm too exhausted to try and get it all down, but I'll get my thoughts sorted out and post an update tomorrow!

Your support helped to empower me! Thank you! :hug:

 

[ladee]

Happy to hear this !!! Nothing changes until something changes.... sending hugs !!!!

 

[joeylittle]

we have had a wonderful breakthrough

That's so great to hear! Looking forward to hearing more, and no, not at all bored to tears. Hopefully you will get a good night's rest.

 

[EveHarrington]

Why would we be bored to tears? We're here to support one another! :hug:

 

[Deleted member 33052]

I take it very seriously, too ;-)

In my case, I was too busy feeling guilty for not wanting to do it. We...

Wine makes everything better. :)

 

[UnKnown-Self]

We have to laugh through the tears. Everything said isn't a confession or written in stone. Somethings aren't as funny to others as to you . And vice versa. That we are here to support, cry, laugh, get angry, whatever. We support each other in our own way.
That you get through this Mal is all any of us want for you. Take what helps and leave the rest. Xoxoxi

 

[mary1979]

Thinking of you Mal.

Stay true to you lovely lady xx

 

[Deleted member 33052]

My husband had a breakthrough yesterday. He realized that he had been writing narratives in his head his whole life to justify blaming others for his problems. He would turn things around and change the story so that he was the victim. He is going to get help. We'll see how that goes...

He also emailed plan B, and told her the truth. Afterwards, he showed me the email and her response, which helped to put my mind at ease.

He told me he couldn't understand why I didn't despise him. When I told him that I understood his actions came from a place of pain and I couldn't hate him for that, he broke down crying and told me that he hasn't *seen* me for years and he had forgotten how beautiful I was...

Still working on stuff, but feeling hopeful.

 

[Mytime]

Mal I'm so glad he is getting some help. I know how hard it is to work on a marriage, as you know I hope nothing but the best for you my friend. Here to support you anyway I can, love you lots, for two.

 

[Deleted member 33052]

Things have taken another downturn, but today I'm going to try not to drink. I hope that soon I will just become numb.

 

[Chimera]

(((((((((((( @Mal Content ))))))))

 

[Deleted member 33052]

Mal I'm so glad he is getting some help. I know how hard it is to work on a marriage, as you know I hope...

My, thank you for your support! I have been wanting to talk to you, but I know you've got your own shit to deal with right now. :(