My mom apologized, like, a real apology.

[ILoveLife]

We were talking about writing, something she wrote. The conversation turned to things that happened and how to translate into writing and all of a sudden I just blurt a lot of things out and start sobbing until I'm out of breath and she hugged me and apologized a bunch of times for her part in what happened to me.

It's the first time in my life she actually understood and accepted her part of the responsibility over all that happened to me.

I spoke about things I never told her, and I told her I'm in deep pain for so long. I think she got that she has her guard up to not deal with suffering but there is no harm in giving love to support another either.

I'm still shaky.
She took her share of the responsibility.

 

[Tinyflame]

Hugs to you @Sietz . :hug:

 

[somerandomguy]

That's wonderful, @Sietz!

 

[Freida]

That is awesome!!!!!!!!

I am so very, very happy for you. :hug:

 

[Movingforward10]

Wow.
That must be really affirming. A massive step. And hopefully a door permanently open for more conversations and healing with her.
Very happy for you.

 

[Mach123]

Hi, hope every works together for good. Thinking of u. : )

 

[Wendell_R]

Big steps for you both! I wish you healing and peace.