OhSoLittleMouse
New Here
If this 4 months into a new relationship I would really advise you to let go and move on. When someone has been traumatized it is up to them to get better. It can be a long haul, but with perseverance and the desire to get healthy, it can be done (I'm living proof). You seem to be a very caring, loving person. Your friend is not available right now, either physically or mentally. It is more important to YOU that he get help than it is to him. Supporting means to support - help balance, not to carry. With so much to give, I would encourage you to move forward. It's not as if you've been married for 30 years. This situation is far too complex for you to be that deep in. Best wishes.
