Soo... how & where do you look for a therapist that *gets* you are *both* profoundly insightful & challenged in other ways, and turns the insight into something worked with practically to lessen pain?
Bc I doubt that is a combination that just cannot be found. These people can be found. Just were not YET.
Also maybe switch from communicating generics of issues to concretes posing problem.
Like, I'll take my Cannot self care with injuries / talk it part as an example - it's not really true I wholely can't with informing others what's up. Crack a joke or five my way, ask me if I can answer at all, ask me if it's as pooch screw and fun as X year action, tell me what to do in a way that sounds as just f*cking around ((... Okay Ro but you got to clean it up first and not skip that one. Or I'll have to do an amputation when you get all gangrenous. What, :eek:, you don't like that thought? Told ya mate, just simple correct order of actions now :D))... and I catch up fine.
Helplessness & childhood messing in & inability to brain moving aside, back to Bitch please, but I know this & got this.
But people need to know that bit, to not start questioning me ad nausea or demanding who caused that injury or any other stupid BS that true, is normal etiology, but no, doesn't work with how I learn anything and shuts me down deeper.
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So what are your catches & turn arounds to I got this :smug: when it comes to therapy?
What makes therapist invasive / violating vs supportive?
As a fine line it may be, it can be balanced out.
Bc I doubt that is a combination that just cannot be found. These people can be found. Just were not YET.
Also maybe switch from communicating generics of issues to concretes posing problem.
Like, I'll take my Cannot self care with injuries / talk it part as an example - it's not really true I wholely can't with informing others what's up. Crack a joke or five my way, ask me if I can answer at all, ask me if it's as pooch screw and fun as X year action, tell me what to do in a way that sounds as just f*cking around ((... Okay Ro but you got to clean it up first and not skip that one. Or I'll have to do an amputation when you get all gangrenous. What, :eek:, you don't like that thought? Told ya mate, just simple correct order of actions now :D))... and I catch up fine.
Helplessness & childhood messing in & inability to brain moving aside, back to Bitch please, but I know this & got this.
But people need to know that bit, to not start questioning me ad nausea or demanding who caused that injury or any other stupid BS that true, is normal etiology, but no, doesn't work with how I learn anything and shuts me down deeper.
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So what are your catches & turn arounds to I got this :smug: when it comes to therapy?
What makes therapist invasive / violating vs supportive?
As a fine line it may be, it can be balanced out.